Friday, December 31, 2010

Top 10 Songs of 2010

Even though the top 10 CDs was an easy list to compile, there are always songs that I love that are not on the list of top 10 CDs, but they were on regular rotation for me this year. 

1.) Shelter by Jars of Clay--Honestly to pick one song off of this CD is really tough, because I loved the whole thing so, so much...But, this one captured me right away.  I'd love to hear this done live!  Sample lyric: "Come away from where you’re hiding...Set aside the lies that you’ve been living...May this place of rest in the fold of your journey...Bind you to hope that we will never walk alone..."

2.) Grenade by Bruno Mars--I really like the smooth styling of Bruno Mars...I have to admit though, that his other songs got on my nerves...But this one did not.  It was released later in the year as a single, but I will say that it has been on regular rotation when I need to belt a song out!  Sample lyric: "I'd catch a grenade for ya...Throw my hand on a blade for ya...I'd jump in front of a train for ya...You know I'd do anything for ya..."

3.) Glitter in the Air by Pink--I didn't listen to this one all that much when I loved her CD...Not sure why, I just tended to skip over it or half listen.  But when she performed at the Grammys (which if you haven't seen it, click on the link!), not only was her performance stunning, but I really listened to the lyrics and just felt the emotion.  I'm sorry that I skipped it before! Sample lyric: "Have you ever hated yourself for staring at the phone?  You're whole life waiting on the ring to prove you're not alone....Have you ever been touched so gently you had to cry? Have you ever invited a stranger to come inside?"

4.) Bloodline by Matt Morris--If there was one song that got more rotation on my playlist than any other one, it would have to be this one.  I think on an hour drive once, it was the only song I listened to.  I absolutely love this song...The lyrics are haunting and beautiful...The soft quality of Matt Morris' voice singing it just fits perfectly.  He doesn't over sing or under sing.  And when I saw him do this song live, it was even more beautiful.  Seriously, if you've never heard this song, really do click the link because it is mesmerizing.  Sample lyric: "She heard heaven is invite only, reserved for Christian soldiers Not unwed girls living in the city asking for change from strangers, But father said Jesus loves her even though she never married...God loves her more than the Christians too, she's part of his holy bloodline...She got saved in the bloodline....The price he paid for the bloodline....Changed her life, she cries at night and keeps alive his bloodline...She believes in the bloodline....Lives and breathes by the bloodline...With all her might she cries at night and keeps alive his bloodline..." Bonus version: Matt Morris featuring Justin Timberlake (This is where I 1st heard of Matt Morris.)

5.) Toxic by Britney Spears/Glee--I never wanted to like Britney Spears...Ever...But her songs were always a little addictive & unavoidable...But it wasn't until she lost it publicly that I really started to root for her and hoped that she could make a comeback.  When Glee announced they were doing the Brittany/Britney episode, I was really excited and while the episode was okay, it was this song that stole the show.  I thought this version of Toxic was genius.  I wanted to scream out as well, "Mr. Shue, let me be your Britney!"  Sample lyric: "It’s getting late...To give you up...I took a sip from my devil's cup...Slowly, it’s taking over me...Too high, can’t come down...It’s in the air and it’s all around...Can you feel me now.."

6.) Sweet Dreams by Beyonce--Beyonce is another one that I really didn't ever want to like...But, then it happened.  I loved this song before it started to catch rotation on the radio.  It's got a Michael Jackson-ish feel...As much as I didn't want to like her, Beyonce is super talented and this is another success!  Sample lyric: "I mention you when I say my prayers...I wrap you around all of my thoughts...Boy you're my temporary high...I wish that when I wake up you're there to wrap your arms around me for real and tell me you'll stay by side..."

7.) Morning Sun by Robbie Williams--This was the song that I listened to on Robbie Williams' latest release and I just breathed a sigh of relief and was so glad that the Robbie I fell in love with was back!  The lyrics that prod & speak volumes, yet don't take themselves too seriously.  A melody that is not too fast, but not slow either...This is why Robbie Williams is my favorite artist of all time.  Sample lyric: "How do you rate the morning sun after a long and sleepless night?  How many stars would you give to the moon?  Can you see those stars from where you are? Shine on the lost and lonely, the ones who cant get over it..."

8.) The Un-American by Matt Morris--When I first listened to this song, I thought..."He didn't just say that did he?"  I listened to it a few times to make sure I really heard what I thought I heard...And I did.  This is a stinging critique of American culture.  While he certainly makes some jabs at conservative culture, he doesn't exclude everyone--how do we fix what we feel?  Just buy a new... Sample lyric: "The un-American needs a personal Jesus, private insurance, an obedient wife ..."

9.) Run in the Night (Psalm 27) by Jars of Clay--Like I said, it's really hard to only pick 1 song from The Shelter.  I think my music choices this year were defined by Matt Morris, Jars of Clay, & Glee!  But this song caught me by surprise.  I was captured at first by the music of the chorus, I think I was listening to it without actually listening...Then, I decided to really listen...I love this song.  I love Jars of Clay.  Sample lyric: "I know who I am...Once I was nameless, alone and you found me...You formed my knees to bend...You call me Beloved, I am perfection...All my failures won’t condemn me or leave me paralyzed and bound...When I’m at my worst, Your Love, it finds me first..."

10.) Fireflies by Owl City--When I first heard this song, I'll be honest...I thought it was stupid.  I didn't like it & I didn't think I ever would.  Then, the youth at Sheridan-Norway UMC sang it all the time and it kind of grew on me...Then, I knew I was moving and I knew what my final sermon would be and this song started speaking to me that much more.  So, it's not so stupid... Sample lyric: "To ten million fireflies, I'm weird cause I hate goodbyes...I got misty eyes as they said farewell...But I'll know where several are if my dreams get real bizarre, cause I saved a few and I keep them in a jar..."

Top 10 CDs of 2010

The listing continues!  I never seem to have a problem compiling the music lists...This year some of my old favorites got to reappear!  As always, these weren't necessarily released in 2010, but that's when they were on rotation in my ipod!
1.) The Shelter by Jars of Clay-- Jars of Clay always sings my soul song...This latest release does the same.  I love Jars of Clay for their musical style, but their lyrics are deep and profound...they're one of the few Christian artists that I can listen to and have very little issue with their theology.  If you have never listened to Jars of Clay before, you really need to do it!  Songs to listen to: Shelter, Run in the Night (Psalm 27), Small Rebellions


2.) In and Out of Consciousness by Robbie Williams--This is a Greatest Hits compilation from Robbie Williams, so I have to be honest and say that I didn't download all of it, because I have most of them!  But, the new additions to the collection are beautiful and remind me why I love Robbie Williams.  These aren't necessarily the "clean your house" songs, but they are the songs that I put on when I'm getting ready or when I'm in my office...I'm so glad that this Robbie Williams is back!  Songs to listen to: Shame, Toxic, Heart & I

3.) Teenage Dream by Katy Perry--It usually takes me a few hits from Katy Perry to convince me to get her full CD...This time it wasn't as tough to convince-- Firework was really my motivator.  I mean, California Girls was all over the place this summer & Teenage Dream is still pretty unavoidable...But, I usually end up liking most of the CD as soon as I listen to it!  Sure there are some guilty pleasures here and some that I won't listen to in my office...But, this is really good "clean the house" or workout music! Songs to listen to:  Who Am I Living For, Circle the Drain, Not Like the Movies

4.) Glee Soundtrack--This would really take up about 7 of the spots on the list because there have been so many put out!  Can we talk about how much I love Glee?  From Rocky Horror Picture Show to Britney Spears--it's all fantastic!  I absolutely love this show!  I like their fresh take on songs and the Broadway spin that they put on some of the pop hits.  If you aren't watching Glee, you should be.  Songs to listen to: Teenage Dream, Valerie, Toxic

5.) My Best Days by Danny Gokey--I have to be honest and say that I didn't listen to this CD until I saw him in concert and then it was on constant repeat.  I'm not sure why I didn't listen to it, but it may have to do with me not wanting to pay for it...I'm glad I got it from my mom!  I really liked Danny Gokey when he was on Idol, but I'm not surprised that he didn't win and I'm actually kind of glad because I don't think he would have done this style of music (country).  I like the vulnerability in his lyrics and the passion when he performs-- although that doesn't come across in quite the same way as live!  Songs to listen to: It's Only, Crazy Not To, I Will Not Say Goodbye

6.) Tonight by Tobymac--I haven't been as impressed with Tobymac recently as I was for Welcome to Diverse City, I think that was my favorite...But, I really like the different styles on this one-- he really mixes things up!  I haven't quite listened to it enough to be able to sing along with every song, but it's also some really good "house cleaning" & workout music!  Songs to listen to: City on Our Knees, Changed Forever, Wonderin'

7.) Reality Killed the Video Star by Robbie Williams--This is why Robbie Williams is my favorite singer ever...I was really disappointed with his last few releases, but this is why I love him!  His lyrics & smooth voice...I could listen to him all day!  I love that there is humour in his lyrics and that there is depth to what he sings.  If I could hire Robbie Williams to wake me up every morning, I'd do it!  Songs to listen to: Morning Sun, Bodies, Blasphemy

8.)  When Everything Breaks Open by Matt Morris--I first heard Matt on the Haiti telethon when he sang Hallelujah with Justin Timblerlake (which is now in my top 3 of versions of this song!), then I saw him sing Bloodline on Ellen and I was captivated...It is an amazing song and heart wrenching and his voice is raspy and lovely.  I was lucky to be able to see Matt in a private concert this year and his voice is amazing-- he sang so well and the songs that I loved so much resonated within my spirit in ways that I was not expecting.  I love this CD and while there are some songs that stick out, really this whole CD is amazing and if you like accoustic music or your heart being pulled, you should get this.  Songs to listen to: Bloodline, The UnAmerican, Eternity

9.) Bebo Norman by Bebo Norman--First, let me just say that I just like saying his name!  I usually like much of what Bebo Norman puts out, but it takes me awhile to like it and catch on...This one wasn't much of an exception.  I think I got this last year, but it didn't make it into regular rotation until mid year...I really like the soft, accoustic-y style that he sings in and the lyrics usually stir something in my soul as well.  I'm always glad to remember that I need to give Bebo a few listens before I decide whether I like it or not! Songs to listen to: Britney, The Only Hope, Pull Me Out

10.) Speak Now by Taylor Swift--I didn't want to jump on the Taylor Swift bandwagon...I didn't want to like her...I didn't want to listen to her...Let me be honest and say that she is not the best singer...But she does know how to write a song.  I suppose with writing from personal experiences helps with that!  I'm not jumping on the Taylor Swift bandwagon, but I am saying that I liked this CD...Songs to listen to: Innocent, Mine, Back to December

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Top 10 Movies of 2010

Wow, I don't know what I did all year...I didn't read, I didn't watch movies...Well, maybe I just didn't watch great movies!  This list was pretty tough to come up with!  There were quite a few movies that I saw that I really just didn't like or they were movies that I liked, but they were entirely fluff or mindless...Not that there's anything wrong with that, mind you...It's just not something that will appear on my top 10 list!

But here's the list...Just like always, these movies didn't necessarily come out in 2010, but that's when I saw them and loved them!   And they are not in order from favorite to least favorite--the order that they appear is random! And again, I am open to suggestions if you have any!


1.) The Social Network starring Jesse Eisenberg & Justin Timberlake-- I use facebook.  There, I said it...I have heard some of the stories of how facebook came to be, but honestly I wasn't super interested...But the movie, whether there is a lot of fiction in it as Mark Zuckerberg claims, is quite interesting.  I have to say that it does not portay him in a super great way... I watched Jessee Eisenberg's portrayal and thought that if Zuckerberg really behaves in the ways that they showed, he must have a personality disorder...Same with Justin Timblerlake's portrayal of Sean Parker...If he's that paranoid, he must have some kind of disorder.  The movie is typical of Aaron Sorkin in there isn't all that much action....But it is packed with dialogue!

2.) Avatar starring Sam Worthington & Zoe Saldana and directed by James Cameron--I originally reviewed Avatar here.  I'll just repeat again, that the story isn't all that earth shattering or new...But the effects were stunning.  I've seen part of the movie on a smaller screen and it wasn't too awful, but seeing everything in 3D certainly added so much to the film.  I'm curious to see if Avatar 2 or 3 can live up to the first one....

3.) Harry Potter & the Deathly Hallows Part 1 starring Daniel Radcliffe, Emma Watson, & Rupert Grint--I am sad to see the Harry Potter series coming to an end, but I am so looking forward to seeing how it will actually end.  I should have read the book again before seeing the movie, but maybe it's better that I didn't...I think some of the 1st movies were stand alone enough that you didn't have to see the previous ones or read the books to know what was going on....That may have been true in the beginning 2 or maybe even 3...But so not anymore.  If you haven't seen any of the Harry Potter movies or read any of the books, you'll be lost (and you've probably been either crafty or living under a rock...).  When the movie ended, all I wanted was for part 2 to be out the next day!  Kudos to Daniel Radcliffe, Emma Watson, & Rupert Grint for taking on these characters so well over these last years!  And poor Dobby...

4.) The Hangover starring Bradley Cooper, Zach Galifinakis, & Ed Helms--You can read my original review here.  I waited seeing this one for quite awhile because I really thought it was going to be way too terrible...Over the top gross out humour....And while there were moments that I thought were not needed...Overall, it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be...And the movie was really funny!  I'm nervous about the 2nd one because I hope they don't try and top themselves or make the same movie all over again...

5.) Inception starring Leonardo DiCaprio--  I really need to see this one again because I am so sure that I missed a lot...There were times when I was thinking way too hard and times when I just gave up thinking...Really complex story, but one that I so wanted to get to the bottom of and see what would actually happen.  There are several things that are open to interpretation, but I think the director is pretty clear on what happened!  So glad I saw this one!

6.) Black Swan starring Natalie Portman & Mila Kunis--I knew I had to see this one before the end of the year because with all the buzz, I was pretty sure it would make my list...And it does!  This movie is still making me think...Beautifully done...The story is haunting and tragic, yet beautiful.  Natalie Portman's transformation into the Nina Sayers, the ballerina is stunning...her accolades are well deserved. 

7.) The Blindside starring Sandra Bullock--  I'm not sure why I didn't see this movie in the theaters, except I don't think it was around for very long at the theaters where I used to live...I can't remember....Even when it came out on DVD, I didn't rush to see it, which is odd because I ususally do for the movies that have a buzz attached to them!  Anyway, I did see this and loved it!  I laughed, I cried, I was moved...A heart breaking & heart warming story and to know that it's based on a true story too, is simply lovely! 

8.) Eastern Promises starring Naomi Watts & Viggo Mortenson--I reviewed this movie originally here...I still don't know how I got this movie or why I wanted to watch it, but that's ok because it was good!  Even for the flaws in the character development, it was a great and haunting movie.  I wanted the ending to be different, but I also don't think that it could have ended any different.  I'm glad for this random addition to my viewing!

9.) Why Did I Get Married--Starring Janet Jackson & Tyler Perry--My original review for this movie is here.  I'll say it again...I really love Tyler Perry's movies.  I think he writes tackling real issues and real problems with honesty and with faith.  There were parts of this movie that I didn't quite appreciate, but overall it was very good and would be a good conversation starter.  I should have seen this quite awhile ago, especially since the sequel has been out (and I haven't seen that yet)...But, I'm glad that I finally saw it!

10.) Coraline starring Dakota Fanning & John Hodgman-- I think this is the only animated movie this year!  Not your typical Disney-esque movie....A little bit darker, but a morality tale just the same...I didn't want to watch this or like it, but I did to both!  Glad that I did, and it was good, but I'll take a warm & fuzzy pink princess any day!

Monday, December 27, 2010

Top 10 Books of 2010

I guess I haven't done as much reading as I thought I had, but I did do enough to compile a top 10 list of course! I guess next year one of my resolutions needs to be to read more books....I certainly have some in my piles to read!

Last year, I was concerned with my list not having enough female authors or other ethnic viewpoints...That's improved slightly this year, but I'm still looking for suggestions of books to read!

This list is not in order of best to worst, nor does it necessarily mean that these books were published in 2010...Just when I read them and loved them. Some of them already have reviews on this blog elsewhere, so I'll direct to them rather than recap everything here all over again!

1.) Mad Church Disease by Anne Jackson--My original review is here. Let me just say that reading this book at the time that I did was pretty eye opening...I was honestly past burnout if I'm being really honest...But I've changed a lot of patterns in my life and many other things have changed too! I think I could read this book again today and see/hear some things that are very different. It was an easy/quick read, but very important.

2.) Choosing to SEE: A Journey of Struggle & Hope by Mary Beth Chapman--My original review is here. I read this book so fast because I really just could not put it down. I think I cried through almost every chapter in the ugly cry...Beautifully told and a book that shows how grief doesn't just go away, but takes awhile to go through. I appreciate Mary Beth Chapman's honesty, outlook, and wit.

3.)Bright-Sided: How the Relentless Promotion of Positive Thinking Has Undermined America by Barbara Ehrenreich --Again, my original review is here. I really like Ehrenreich's work and while this wasn't my favorite book of hers ever, nor was it a book that I read and thought "Wow, I totally agree with everything in here." But, it did make me think a lot and I really appreciated that.

4.)The Teaching of the 12: The Power & Relevance of the Didache by Tony Jones --Once again, my original review is here. Another very easy read...I think I read it twice because it was so easy to read, but there is really a lot in there! I know that there's curriculum out there now for a study, and I am super interested in leading a class on this!

5.) The Mirror Effect: How Celebrity Narcissism is Endangering Our Families and How to Save Them by Dr. Drew Pinsky--I looked all over and I can't believe I didn't review this book after I finished it early this year...I love this one. It was really intriguing to read and also to take the narcissism quiz at the end of the book. I really like Dr. Drew's take on many things and I appreciate in this book how Dr. Drew talks about his issues with narcissism...He also talks about some of the importance that we need to be slightly narcissistic. For anyone who works with younger generations, this is so important to read to gain a better insight into the way that we live.

6.) Chelsea Chelsea Bang Bang by Chelsea Handler--Ok, here's why I liked this book...It was fluff. I think it was the only fluffy book that I read all year actually...I really like Chelsea Handler's sense of humour and her take on life. I just really needed a laugh when I read this book and I really did!

7.) When Christians Get It Wrong by Adam Hamilton--When I first listened to this series, I wasn't totally impressed...It was good, but I heard it billed as a series for young adults. I found it to be about young adults, not for young adults...But, the book has been really great! I can't remember what's different from the sermons to the pages, but it's really good...There's some more theological underpinning and actually, there are times that it's a very vulnerable book as it seems that Adam Hamilton partially lays out his theology. I'm leading this study in January and can hardly wait!!

8.) The Me I Want to Be: Becoming God's Best Version of You by John Ortberg--I think it was back in September we decided this was going to be our January sermon series, so I thought it would be good to read the book... I have to admit that I went into reading it with a bit of judgmentalism. I read a few reviews, and I heard some of the church associations, so I was ready to not like the book at all. Truthfully, it wasn't as bad as I was anticipating...it was actually pretty good. Yes, there are parts that I cannot go theologically, but it's a weird hybrid of Calvinism & wesleyanism...So much so that I can't totally dislike or totally buy into it. I think it's thought provoking and gives room for pause.

9.) The Daily Show with Jon Stewart Presents Earth (The Book): A Visitors Guide to the Human Race by Jon Stewart--I love Jon Stewart. I think he's hilarious and thoughtful...I appreciate the perspective he gives on the news...His passion for particular topics...I just like him. However, I remember when his book on America came out and I just found it hard to read...But, I loved the audio version! So, I was nervous about this one...But, I found this much easier to read than the others and just as hilarious...Sarcastic, intelligent, juvenile....You name it, it's in there! Okay, maybe I did read more than one fluff book this year...

10.) Crazy Love by Francis Chan--I originally reviewed this book here. I had to sit with this one for awhile...I read this on a friend's suggestion who said it changed their life...It didn't change mine, so I was initially disappointed...But, it was better than I was giving it credit for. It didn't live up to my expectations, but it was good. Another one that I didn't really agree with everything, but it let me think about why...I think I need to read it again with less baggage (like that'll happen, right?) so that I can think more about what's being written and stop focusing on if it's changing my life!

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Christmas Blessings

1.)My family got to come to Christmas Eve services...We've been trying for this to work ever since I moved back to IL, but the weather has just never cooperated...This year, the weather wasn't amazing, but they still made it! It was the first time in a few years, that I got to light candles with them again!

2.) Christmas Eve Services--What a beautiful evening...I love Christmas Eve services in general, but this year it was lovely to be in a new place with no/new traditions to explore & create...To see all of the sparks of light by the candles or the waving of the glowsticks was truly a holy moment!

3.) The text messsages I got wishing me a Merry Christmas...While I drive, I always turn on my app that reads my texts & emails to me (that way, I'm not breaking the law!)...It was lovely to hear the little voice that said over and over, "Merry Christmas!" with excitement because of the exclamation marks!

4.) My brother's dollar store gifts...These are the gifts that I never would have thought to ask for, but will cherish all year....Who wouldn't love a basketball shaped egg with jelly beans or moisturizing socks? I love to see what his creativity brings out.

5.) Laughter...I LOVE when my family gets together and we just laugh and laugh...Sometimes at each others' expense and sometimes just because...It is a beautiful thing!

6.) The thought that everyone in my family puts in the gifts that they give...It's not just buying things because we have to, but it's getting things that have a meaning. I think that gifts speak just as much about the giver as the receiver...It's not just stuff that will take up space, but things that tell a story or have a practical use.

7.) Sporcle...This was our game this year! A web based timed quiz game...Laughter, challenge, fun!

8.) Maddy's first Christmas...And she got to come over for a little while! I mean it was nice to see Mike & Jennifer too, of course...But Maddy will only have 1 first Christmas! What a beautiful little baby!

9.) A day of not feeling rushed, but full of rest with people that I love. Honestly, we could have not opened any gifts, but just spent the day together playing sporcle and drinking wine & vodka slushes and my soul would have been filled to the fullest.

10.) Delicious food--- we don't do a big fancy dinner, which is just awesome...But we have delicious, fun food all the time...More than any of us can possibly consume, but that just makes for good leftovers the next day!

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

You Can't Have This...

I was preparing for the sermon that I gave last week...And while I was doing that, I was thinking through a time when I've experienced the joy of Christmas and stories that I wanted to weave in the message...

I came up with an amazing story that would fit perfectly....And I couldn't use it. It took me quite awhile to get off using that story because as soon as I realized it, I knew I couldn't use it....But I so wanted to...And I thought if I changed some of the details or worded things in a particular way, it would work...But the truth is that changing some of those things would have taken away from it...And I really, really couldn't use it.

I've had stories like that before...Stories that I knew would fit perfectly, but couldn't use for one reason or another. Sometimes it's because it's so deeply personal that it's just for me and I don't want to share it....Sometimes because I want to get permission from a person involved....Sometimes because it's inappropriate for the audience...

But it's hard to grasp onto that perfect narrative and know that it can't be shared...To be fair, after talking through with a friend, I came up with a story that I loved almost as much and fit perfectly as well...And I don't think that it changed the tone of the sermon one bit-- in fact, the story I used may have fit better with the other examples that I used...

Someday, maybe I'll be able to use the 1st story...Maybe...If not, it's a good one for myself and it was really helpful for me to hear for myself and maybe that's more important.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Great UnExpectations: What Child IS This?

Great UnExpectations: What Child IS This?

Over the last few weeks, we’ve been exploring the Unexpectations of the Christmas story…During Advent we have a lot of expectations just like those waiting for the Messiah had a lot of expectations…Which turned out to be quite different than anyone expected. And this season of Advent…a season of waiting often brings about things that are unexpected or at least not what we think will happen…Over these past few weeks, we’ve looked at some of those unexpectations—The unexpectation of peace in a world of violence, the unexpectation of Mary being a poor girl and the mother of Jesus, the unexpectation of hope for the hopeless, and this week we look at the unexpectation of Joy.

Would you pray with me? May the words of my mouth & the meditations of all of our hearts be acceptable in your sight, O Lord our Rock & our Redeemer. Amen.
Christmas is on Saturday…Just in case any of you might have forgotten! There are probably some who have gotten all of your shopping done, wrapped, and tagged in alphabetical order…And some who have thought about getting started…Some who have been noshing on cookies for the past few weeks…And some who will be buying some cookies on Christmas Eve…There are some who have say, 29 Christmas trees in your house, like our very own Sandy Ward and some who are having trouble putting up a tree this year. And hearing some of those descriptions, there are probably a few who are breaking into a cold sweat just thinking about everything that you still need to do…With all that we have to do for Christmas, it’s easy to lose sight of what it is that we’re celebrating and the joy of the birth of Jesus…
When Joseph got the news that his fiancĂ© was pregnant, it was more than a little surprising…unexpected if you will…And Joseph was less than joyful to find out this news…As a matter of fact, he was going to break off their engagement quietly which was actually quite generous…According to the law, Joseph could have been entitled to exposing Mary’s pregnancy publicly which would not just disgrace her, but the appropriate consequence for being pregnant out of wedlock, and not by your fiancĂ©, was death…So, even though Joseph may have been confused & hurt by Mary’s news, he was still concerned for her. Then Joseph has a dream that confirms everything that Mary has said and he was convinced that Mary’s pregnancy wasn’t ordinary…She was pregnant with a child who was going to change the world…This small baby was going to do big and powerful things…The joy that Mary & Joseph had about this news was certainly unexpected to the rest of the world…I mean, Joseph is joyful about his fiancĂ© being pregnant with a child that’s not his…People looking in and not understanding the fullness of this story must have thought that they were crazy! This joy that they felt would have been absurd to the rest of the world!
But isn’t joy like that sometimes? There are times when we are filled with such joy that it looks crazy to anyone else looking at us! And Christmas is one of those times that elicits joy! We sing all kinds of songs about joy—Joy to the world, Tidings of Great Joy… Sometimes it looks like this video clip from the movie Elf… (Video Clip)… (You'll have to click the link to watch the video because it's copyrighted!)

Buddy the Elf looks to be a little nuts to us…And the manager of the store has way too much to do in getting ready for the arrival of their special guest to be excited…For him, smiling isn’t his favorite, but work is his favorite…For him Christmas isn’t a season of joy and wonder, but of more work and annoyance….But aren’t there times when you just don’t feel joyful? Maybe it’s because you’ve got way too much to do and not enough time to do it…Maybe it’s because it’s the first Christmas since something changed…a job lost, a friend or family member who won’t be there…For many, this joyful season is anything but…And sometimes we’re not the ones getting crazy looks, but looking at others with looks that don’t understand their joy…
Last year on Christmas morning, my sister arrived at my parents house with the announcement that Christmas was ruined…She went on in loud and frustrated words to tell how in her pastor’s sermon, he told the story of Jesus’ birth and debunked the Christmas myths…some of the “facts of Christmas” that really aren’t found in the Bible, but in many of our Christmas carols…As she listed out what some of these truths were that she hadn’t heard before, she once again announced that Christmas was ruined and she was upset that we had all lied to her throughout her life….Can you think about that time in your life when Christmas changed? That it was ruined…the joy was gone…What happens the next day? What happened the next day for Joseph—after Mary told him the news of the baby she was carrying?
In Joseph’s dream, he was told that this small baby that his fiancĂ© was carrying wasn’t just any baby…But this baby was going to save the world…In fact, they were to name this baby Jesus, which translates to “God saves”…And this baby was to be called “Emmanuel”—God with us…This small baby brought more joy than even Mary & Joseph knew…This small baby was going to change the world!
My sister spent a few hours of sulking in anger and frustrations about how everything she knew was wrong or at least there was more to the story than she ever knew…But as the day went on, she joined in the laughter with the rest of us and soon those angry words about Christmas being ruined turned into a joke…And the truth is that although she’s not as angry or upset…For her, Christmas will never be the same…The story of Jesus’ birth won’t ever be the same to her because she’ll forever hear it differently…Those few small words about the true story of Christmas changed her life….
Those few small words that the angel told Mary… “You have found favor” and those few small words that the angel told Joseph, “You will name him Jesus for he will save his people from their sins.” Well, they may seem small to us…but they’re a big deal to Mary & Joseph…And those words that my sister heard, well they were a big deal to her…Sometimes what may seem to be small makes a big difference…
What is it that helps to recapture that joy when it seems to be gone? For Joseph it was hearing that this baby that Mary was carrying was more than an ordinary baby…This baby was Emmanuel—this baby was God! That’s enough to bring some joy and make him completely change his mind about his fiancĂ© Mary…This small baby was coming with more joy than the world could know!
How are you finding joy this year? Have you been able to hear the story of Jesus’ birth as an unexpectation of joy? Have you been able to share that joy with others? This year, as a church we have had many opportunities to share small acts of joy with others that may seem small to us, but to the one who receives them, they’re anything but small…We’ve offered Christmas gifts to families through the Angel Tree & Together We Cope & Child Serv…We’ve had 92 children hear the story of Jesus’ birth, make crafts, eat pancakes, and meet Santa at the Santa Jamboree…We’ve collected more than 350 cans of vegetables for the food pantry and distributed more than 40 bags of food to families through the food pantry…We have collected more than 120 pounds of candy to be delivered to troops in Afghanistan…We have filled a mitten tree with mittens, hats, and scarves to help cloth people this winter…These small acts that have brought joy…For some it may not have taken much to buy an extra can of vegetables, but to the single mother of 2 small children and lost her job who came in to get some bags of food, it made a big difference and helped to find some joy in the midst of a cold time…For some it may not have taken much to buy Christmas gifts for the angel tree, but for the mother who received them, it meant that her daughter would have something under the tree on Christmas morning and reminded her that there are people who care…For some it may not have taken much to buy a pair of gloves, but for the man who puts them on his hands on one of those negative temperature mornings, it means an extra layer of warmth that he didn’t have before and a reminder that there is still joy to find…For some it may not have taken much to agree to marry a woman who was pregnant with Emmanuel, but for the world…it meant great joy!
The story of Jesus’ birth doesn’t bring joy just to those who witnessed the birth of Jesus, but it means joy for us today…That this baby that was born isn’t like every other baby, but this baby is Jesus, Emmanuel, God with us…God put on flesh to dwell among the people…Not to condemn, but to live among…Not to ignore the pains of the world, but, as Rob Bell says, “scream alongside” and remind that we are not alone…Not to bring fear and anguish, but tidings of great joy…A joy that sometimes looks crazy…but that sings Joy to the world—the Lord is come!

Wednesday, December 01, 2010

December Newsletter

Dear Friends,
After all of the Thanksgiving feasts have been eaten and football has been sufficiently watched, the next day comes the real full contact activity! Black Friday…I have a confession—I’m one of those crazy people out there waiting in lines and shopping at inhumane hours of the morning. It’s been a tradition with my dad for many years. We go out shopping and then out for breakfast afterwards. It’s one of the few times that it’s just Dad & I out doing something. The last few years, we’ve struggled with what to shop for, but always manage to find something!
A couple years ago while we were waiting in line for a store to open, the person in front turned around and said to me, “Can you believe that we’re all out here doing this for other people?” I don’t know if it made more sense to be standing out there in the cold for ourselves or not, but especially in approaching the Christmas season, the comment made me laugh & made me sad. What were we doing it for? What do we do all the Christmas celebrations for?
Every year, Americans spend around 450 billion dollars on Christmas gifts—oftentimes putting a majority of the spending on credit cards and going into debt to buy gifts. Sometimes buying gifts out of generosity, but many times out of obligation. What would it look like for you this year, to cut your spending in half? What would it look like if instead of buying that sweater that will get returned, you bought a flock of sheep from the Heifer Project in someone’s name? What would it look like if instead of buying that DVD that they already have, donating money through the United Methodist Committee on Relief to help ensure that babies in the Sudan are born healthy? What would it look like if instead of going to that party you don’t really want to be at, you gave your time to Together We Cope?
Instead of driving ourselves crazy and not being able to enjoy the reason that we celebrate, what if we all worshipped fully, spent less, gave more, & loved all? Instead of waiting until next year…why not now?