Thursday, December 31, 2009

Top 10 Books of 2009

I think the majority of the books on my list this year came from the Poets, Prophets, and Preachers conference that I went to this summer. Which I guess is a good thing and another testament to the quality of the conference and the information that was given! One of the things that I have still not done as well on is to read books from various perspectives, ethnic points of view, and female authors. I gladly welcome any and all suggestions for these as it seems that most of the books and topics that I'm interested in are written by white men. And most of the books that I'm interested in are also books about or for the church...Maybe I need to work on that too? Anyway, this is a good list! So, comment, suggest, and read away!

1.) Who Stole My Church by Gordon MacDonald--This is a fictional look at what happens when the church tries to step into the 21st century. MacDonald looks at what he thinks he would do/say to a committee or a self-selected committee who questions the direction of the church. I appreciated the steps that MacDonald would take and the grace that he offered. I also greatly appreciated looking at things from the other side. So often, I am one who is pushing for change and entering into the 21st century, but because I am so used to change and adaptation, I don't understand when others are resistant to it. I can't say that this has answered all of my questions, but it did help to give me an insight. I'm debating weather or not I'll be using this for the Lenten sermon or not...

2.) Angry Conversations with God: A Snarky, Yet Authentic Spiritual Memoir by Susan Isaacs --I so loved this book...A beautiful story of a woman's spiritual journey. There were times that I identified so much with her that it was painful and there were other times that her story was so distant from my own that I was able to just experience. I have not ever thought about taking God to couple's counseling, but I will admit that there have been times that I thought about divorce! While I don't necessarily theologically agree all the places she goes, it is still her story and that's what's important!

3.) A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller --I already blogged my thoughts about this book here. I'm not sure that I can add much more than what I thought about it here. But it was a great book-- certainly the best that Donald Miller has written in quite awhile!

4.) Churched by Matthew Paul Turner --I can't particularly say that I grew up in a home or a church that claimed to be evangelical. I certainly was associated with churches and institutions who would probably use that title and I think that there was one time that I would have claimed the title (to be fair, I still do, just not with the connotations that it carries). Turner's story of his journey through an evangelical church and the sometimes painful and comical look through the eyes of the child. It makes me wonder what we do tell children and teens and how careful to be in telling the story of the Gospel--How do we tell it authentically and with grace, and without fear?

5.) Exiles: Living Missionally in a Post-Christian World by Michael Frost--I read this book for a class with Mike Slaughter this summer and I really appreciated it. There were times that I wish that I had read this years earier and there were plenty of times that I had wished I had read a book like this while I was in seminary. But, I'm glad that I read it. It was helpful to remind me once again that I'm not crazy and that there are plenty who are thinking like me. It was also helpful that he had a reminder that tradition is not always bad, just how we "use" tradition...We don't do things the way that they've always been done just for the sake of doing things the way they've always been done. Frost also doesn't speak in blanket statements as in saying that all things related to how church is currently done is wrong. I appreciate that.

6.) The War of Art by Steven Pressfield--Wonderful! Pressfield labels the reasons that we run from doing our art (whatever that is) as resistence. He works through what we need to conquer as resistance in order to love what we do. I read this during my Sabbath retreat and it was a wonderful comfort and a challenge to continue doing what it is that I'm called to do and to fight that resistance even if and especially when it's myself.



7.) Confessions of Life, Death, & God by Frank Warren --I absolutely adore Postsecret and make it my ritual every Sunday morning to look at the site and see the new secrets posted. I've been excited about this book for awhile as Warren has said that he has gotten many secrets about faith. I can't decide if the anonymity makes people more honest or if having millions of people listen is what makes people more honest...

8.) Angels & Demons by Dan Brown--I saw the movie before I read the book and I loved the movie so much more than The DaVinci Code. I really liked the story of this one and I do wish that I had read the book before seeing the movie, but I always think that...The book is always better! I don't quite understand the some Christian's aversion to Dan Brown as I do think that he gives some things to think about...I think he takes some conspiracy theories a bit too far, but I think that they are things to think about and decide what impact they have on one's faith.

9.) Flickering Pixels by Shane Hipps --Wow, this was such an amazing book! You can find my notes from Shane Hipps presentation from Poets, Prophets, & Preachers here. Which is really a good summary of the book. Fascinating to see just how much technology has changed and shaped how we think. I mean, I know that it's true, but it's so interesting to see how things have evolved. So helpful in developing worship, sermon, and teaching styles. If you haven't read this one, do it tomorrow. Seriously.

10.) How (Not) to Speak of God by Peter Rollins--I didn't read this until I saw Peter speak at the Poets, Prophets, and Preachers conference. I wish that I would have read it first, but so glad to be introduced to Peter Rollins' voice. You can read my attempt at notes for Peter Rollins' presentations here and here. The book doesn't quite live up to his energy and passion that he showed on stage and there are times when this book is really hard to get through and takes quite a bit of thinking. I wonder if that is what will keep his voice from being heard throughout the church? He's got some important things to say, I hope that people will listen.




Honorable Mention:
Drops Like Stars by Rob Bell--here's the only reason that this doesn't make the top 10 list...I liked the lecture so much better. The book is good. And it is good especially if you haven't been able to see "Drops Like Stars" in person (or hopefully DVD), it is surely a good alternative. I'm not completely comfortable going in all the places that Rob Bell goes theologically, but it's a good jumping off place.

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Top 10 Movies of 2009

This was a little bit harder list to come up with and I think it's because I didn't do all that well in watching movies this year. Something that I'll need to work better on for 2010! But I'm satisfied with my choices for this year! If you have any others to add to list or have any criticisms of my choice, feel free to add them! I think that almost all of these were released in either 2008 or 2009, but they're just my top movies of 2009.

1.) The Invention of Lying starring Ricky Gervais & Jennifer Garner-- I don't think this got the media attention that it deserved, and had I not been persistant about finding it, I might have missed it too! I had to go up to Rockford to see it and dragged my sister along (even though she had never heard of it!) The story itself is intriguing-- what does the world look like if no one were physically able to lie. What happens throughout the movie is Gervais' character develops religion. The take on how religion is/was created is intriguing and deserves some thought and pontification. But, what I was captured more by was what torture and agony it must be to be the person that knows the truth. What a difficult life that must be!

2.) Inglorious Basterds starring Brad Pitt & directed by Quentin Tarantino-- I had some skepticism in seeing this movie because of the violence. I've actually not seen a Tarantino movie, so this was a first for me! There was indeed violence and lots of language that are not okay for children (or many people). And I had to remind myself at times that I was watching a movie and not a documentary! There were several story arcs that were captivating and the story drove the movie, not the violence. By the end, I couldn't decide who the bad guys or the good guys were. I think that was part of the point of the messiness over the situation of WWII.

3.)Gran Torino starring Clint Eastwood-- I must have seen this movie in January, because there would be no other reason that this wouldn't have made the list last year. This one not only made my top of the year, but it is in my top 10 movies of all time. If you watch this movie and don't see the message of the Gospel, then you either didn't really watch the movie or you don't know what the Gospel is. An amazing story of grace, foregivness, and sacrifice.

4.) Revolutionary Road starring Kate Winslet & Leonardo DiCaprio--I wish that I would have read the book before seeing the movie (and I still haven't read it), but the movie was stellar. I know a big deal was made about Kate & Leo being together for the first time since Titanic, but this movie had little in common with that one! A story of the difficulties of suburban life...It does not paint suburbia in a good way at all. But the story is compelling, challenging, and discomforting.

5.) The Soloist starring Robert Downey Jr & Jamie Foxx --Another movie that I don't think got enough attention-- I also had to go to Rockford to see this one (and dragged my mom & sister to see it too!). A beautiful story and based on a true story. Jamie Foxx did a stellar job playing someone with mental illness and it was an amazing story of those with mental illness who are homeless. Foxx's character refuses to take his meds because he isn't comfortable with them. This movie brings up all kinds of conversations around homelessness, mental illness, and patient's rights.

6.) Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince starring Daniel Radcliffe, Emma Watson, & Rupert Grint--I think that this was close to being my favorite book of the series (Deathly Hallows of course wins), but so far it's my least favorite of the series. There was so much more that could have been done! That being said, it was still a good movie-- if I had not read the book, I would have loved the movie, and while I really, really liked it (and enough to be on my list), it still fell a little short. It is a great bridge to the final 2 movies, though and I can't wait for those to come out!!

7.) Up starring Ed Asner--I was not expecting to run through all emotions in the first 20 minutes of the movie and not expecting to cry in the first 10...Or several other times throughout the movie! It was a great picture...Good story and not just because of the story, but also the lessons and the conversations starters in the movie. Urban sprawl, treatment of the elderly, absent parents...And all in a kid's movie!

8.) The Proposal starring Sandra Bullock & Ryan Reynolds--Yes, a chick flick! And this was still a pretty typical chick flick...But it was super cute! I love Sandra Bullock in the romantic comedy roles because she really knows how to do them and how to do them well. It was just a feel good movie!

9.) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button starring Brad Pitt & Cate Blanchett--Okay this was a little bit long, but I didn't quite notice it (maybe a little...) because I was trying to figure out how it was all going to end! The stories woven throughout were moving and impressive-- kind of hard to believe that this came from a short story! I so appreciated the love story that was shared and the love that offered sacrifices and gave second chances.

10.) Invictus starring Matt Damon & Morgan Freeman--Made it in just under the radar! If there was ever any doubt, I will see anything and everything that Clint Eastwood has a hand in creating. He is such a talented director and a master story teller. This story based on the true story of Nelson Mandela and the reconcilliation of South Africa was impressive to say the least. The wise decisions to focus a country's attention on something they could all rally behind...How one person can offer forgivness after 30 years...Wow, the story of Nelson Mandela in and of itself is amazing and throw Clint Eastwood in the mix...You can't go wrong!



Honorable Mention


New in Town-- This gets honrable mention because I really don't like Renee Zellweger, but I did so appreciate this story as a view on blue collar theology. Seeing how those who are blue collar and those who are white collar work well and not so well together....This provided a deeper lesson beyond the chick flick...Plus Harry Connick Jr. almost makes up for Renee Zellweger!

Friday, December 11, 2009

Top 10 CDs of 2009

Well, it's that time again...To examine what the best of the year are! So far, the easiest has been for me to figure out what the best music has been...Not sure why that is this year, but it is! There was some good music out there this year and certainly some that I've missed. So, if you have any more suggestions, let me know. As always, these are not necessarily released this year, but that's when I discovered them and that's when they played on repeat on my ipod!





1.) Jars of Clay--The Long Fall Back to Earth --This one was completely on repeat this year for me and so many times I wondered how Jars of Clay found my journal. It's been awhile since I've heard a CD like that! The music is melodic and easy to listen to, but it's the lyrics that capture me. Some of them make me uncomfortable and some of them bring immense comfort. Some of them I wish certain people would listen to them and some of them I wish I would listen to more. Listen to: Two Hands, Boys (Lesson One), Headphones

2.) Lady Gaga--The Fame/Fame Monster --I'm going to say it. I think Lady Gaga is overrated...However, she knows how to write a hook and a melody that burrows into your brain. I avoided it for awhile, but Just Dance was impossible to miss. Then, I tried to fight it again, but I realized that I was singing Bad Romance around my house! So, she certainly gets my vote for one of my favorite CDs of the year. Listen to: Speechless, Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say), Teeth, Beautiful, Dirty, Rich

3.) Stephen Curtis Chapman--Beauty Will Rise --The Chapman's public struggle through grief and the loss of their daughter, Maria Sue is pretty incredible. I was moved by their talk of forgiveness both of self and others. This release is the first since Maria's death and it is heart wrenching. There are times that I think you have to know their story in order to really "get" some of the lyrics, but the truth is that anyone who is struggling with evil, death, or tragedies can find something to cling to. While I don't agree with all of the theology presented, I do think that it is well thought through and I hope that it was helpful in the Chapman's journey. Listen to: Our God is in Control, Spring is Coming, Just Have to Wait

4.) Glee Soundtrack Volume 1 --If I've said it once, I've said a billion times...I absolutely love the TV show, Glee. I didn't think that I would enjoy it nearly as much as I do, but I'm not ashamed to say if...I'm a Gleek. Now, my brother calls this "Less Good Covers of Good Songs" but I completely disagree. The voices of these artists are amazing-- most of them being Broadway performers. The covers of the songs are indeed show choir type covers with a little Broadway flair thrown in. I love it! Listen to: Don't Stop Believin', Defying Gravity (for a bonus get both the Rachel & Curt solos...Good stuff!), Keep Holding On

5.) Todd Agnew--Need --I think Todd Agnew has made an appearance on my list every year...I love his voice, the deep bass voice (and honestly, looking at him, I wouldn't have guessed that voice comes from him!) What I love about his lyrics is that he is critical of the church, but also loves the church. I can find myself in there. I have a hard time with his lyrics at times, but the musical style is easy to listen to and easy to sing along with as well! Listen to: Did You Mean Me?, Joy Unspeakable, Breakable

6.)Regina Spektor--Far --I've listened to Regina Spektor before, but not really in any "real" kind of way...Songs here and there and not with any consistency. I've always liked her voice and her style, just hasn't been on my top priority! Until I heard her song Laughing With this summer. I fell in love with the lyrics and the song and could be found singing and humming it around the house and in the car even when I didn't have the song playing. Listen to: Laughing With, Eet, One More Time with Feeling

7.)Mandy Moore--Amanda Leigh --I really like Mandy Moore's voice-- it's got a sweet sound and I can't remember how and/or why she was a pop princess at one time...She's certainly been able to avoid all of the controversy and hype that others like her did (Britney, Christina, Jessica) and really her career has been all about her music and movies, which I think is a good thing. This is a break from the "pop princess" kind of music and I like it. Similar in style to Regina Spektor, but not the same. I'm not sure if her marriage to Ryan Adams influenced any of her music, but I hope she continues! Listen to: I Could Break Your Heart Any Day of the Week, Bug, Merrimack River

8.)Johnny Cash--The Essential Johnny Cash --I don't know how I missed Johnny Cash and I don't know how no one told me to listen to him! I was familiar with his music through the movie Walk the Line and from a few songs here and there. But, I picked this up on a whim and have fallen in love with Johnny Cash's voice and music. I'm only sorry that I didn't find him sooner! I like "old school country" that tells stories and weaves a way of life throughout-- I think that's what is missing from much of "today's country." Listen to: The One on the Right is on the Left, Highwayman, The Wanderer

9.)U2--No Line on the Horizon --Okay, here's the other thing...I also think that U2 is a little bit overrated...I love their music and I think that they have much to say in lyrics and music...But I just don't think they're also worth all the hype...I have a problem with the sensalization of Bono as the ultimate Christian spokesperson. Not because I think he is disingenuous, because I think he absolutely believes what he says and calls into action. However, he also still lives as a rock star and that is not compatible with Christian living. I just think that it's not healthy to place someone so high on such a pedestal. But, on to the music. This was a good release, just not great. I was a bigger fan of others...I would have loved to see them live because that may indeed change my opinion on this album! Good stuff, just not great (but good enough to make my list!) Listen to: Moment of Surrender, Magnificent, Breathe

10.) Matt Nathanson--Some Mad Hope --It seems that some of the pattern this year has been that I liked one song and took a chance that I'd like the whole album! This was absolutely one of those. I heard Come on Get Higher for the first time when I was in California and couldn't get the song out of my head. Upon a preview of some of the other songs and a peek at the lyrics, I thought that it would be worth it to get the whole thing and I was right! The music is a familiar style and not all that original, but it is good to listen to and makes me feel good! Listen to: Come on Get Higher, Car Crash, Wedding Dress


So there you have it! My to p10 CDs this year...What would you add to this list or do you have criticism for my choices and comments?

Tuesday, December 08, 2009

I, You, Me, We...

I was praying on Monday night in Bible study and we were praying for things that we were thankful for...By the end of the prayer, I realized that I had used mostly "we" or "our" language instead of "I" or "me"...I didn't catch it until the end, after I had prayed aloud too...

I remember a classmate in seminary once telling a story of being in a Bible study and saying something about when "we read..." and the person said something to the effect of being a pastor made him focus too much on the "we crap" and not enough on himself.

So, I wonder if that's true? But shouldn't our church experience be based communally? So should prayer be corporate? I suppose I'm so used to leading prayer and in the prayers of the people, I'm not always praying for my prayers, but the prayers of the people. So, it makes more sense to be praying "we" and "our"...

We pray, "Our Father..." so we have a communal prayer...And in my personal prayer time I don't say "we" or "our" unless I am refering to a group that I am in...But in my personal prayers I do pray for my personal concerns and my personal joys...I also ask for my forgiveness and relieve my frustrations and questions for God...

Have any other pastors/worship leaders found this as well?

Monday, December 07, 2009

Smells like church?

So those ebay commercials...This one in particular, I can't figure out how I feel about it. On the one hand I am offended because it is another slam from pop culture on the church. But on the other hand, critique is helpful if it helps us to examine ourselves...And the truth is that there are a lot of people who would have the same reaction to what "church smells like." On the other hand, I love Jim Gaffigan and find him hilarious! And maybe this is just a funny commercial? But then on the other hand (keeping track?), I also don't appreciate the commercialism/consumer driven idea that it promotes, even if we are buying used items from ebay...

Hmmm....What do you think?



Sunday, December 06, 2009

Adam Hamilton: Notes

Three Questions to ask:

Why do people need Jesus Christ?
If you aren’t persuaded to believe people need JC, you can’t make disciples of JC!
Something that is empty inside of us—what can actually satisfy that hunger?
Racism, poverty, divorce are fundamentally spiritual issues.
Is death really the end or is there something more?
My life has meaning
What hope do I have?


Why do people need the church?
Community of faith
Boring/irrelevant, want money, hypocrites
Church is Jesus’ idea—he initiated the idea!
Primary vehicle that God will accomplish the kingdom is through the Body of Christ—the Church
COMMUNITY!!


Why do people need your particular church?
We’re not the best church out there, but we happen to reach people.
What is it about the UMC that makes us able to reach people that no other church can’t
What is special about our church?
Help congregations believe in themselves again
Heritage, helping others, etc…What is it?
Figure out how to lead the church to be the church that you would be at and not just the church you’re paid to be.
What do you have to offer and be proud of it!


Visitor Tips
Look @ facilities with fresh eyes
Facilities need to express that we care about what we’re doing.
Signage
Do you know how to get in the building?
Nursery
Is my child going to be safe?
Children are more important than God to parents
Welcome center/Hospitality Center
Is there someone standing there waiting to greet them & give them directions (take them there)
Friendliest people to one another, not to visitors….Not allowed to talk to friends until done being a greeter
Willing to give up seats for someone new?
Are you grateful that someone new is there or do you give them a look?

Opportunities:
Weddings, funerals, concerts, community events, support groups; any time that people enter your doors is an opportunity to share the message of Jesus Christ

Welcome into the sanctuary
Introduce yourself as pastor
Greet one another
What are we doing?
Attendance pads—greet one another; ushers hand to the end of the row;
Visit the first time visitors Sunday afternoon—1-2 minutes
Remember their name!
3rd time visitor—visit them at their home to get to know them; 30-45 minutes
“Can I come over to get to know you better?”
“Tell me your story?” Always make it easy to say “no”
Pray out loud with them—unchurched people haven’t had people pray out loud for them
All about people—know their names!
Excellent worship; Good preaching; reaching out; excellent follow-up
Membership expectations
1st step into following Christ, not a graduation
No privileges (same price for weddings)—only a loss of privileges—further parking spaces, turn in pledge cards, keep track of who has done something, after 5 misses in worship—check up
Worship, service, growing in faith (apart from morning worship), giving in worship—moving to 10%
Why join?
I’m looking for a deeper level of commitment.
Want expectations!

Saturday, December 05, 2009

The Rebel Jesus

I was listenting to Bebo Norman's Christmas EP today and truthfully, it's the first Christmas music that I've listened to so far. I suppose in some ways it's been intention and in others it's not...I usually listen to Christmas music after Thanksgiving and until Christmas is over, but this year I've had a real aversion to Christmas.

The commercialism and consumerism of Christmas have really gotten to me this year-- so much so that I'm not excited about Christmas and I can get quite nasty if you ask me my thoughts on Christmas.

On Monday I had to pick up some coats for the coat drive and on my way to lead Bible study on Luke 16 (which is of course all about stewardship and where your heart is there your treasure will be...). And I was in a foul mood...Well, mostly in my head not really to anyone else. But I heard a commercial on the radio selling something and I was sighing and fuming when I came upon the park in the middle of Ottawa. The lights lit up the trees in a peaceful and serene fashion. I was caught off guard and moved to tears...Looking at the lights melted my heart a bit and made it okay for Christmas to be coming.

So, yesterday I was listening to Bebo Norman's Christmas release: From the Realms of Glory. Now, I had just come from the mall where you can't avoid consumer driven mentality. So, I was starting to get cynical again when I was caught off guard once again. Now, the whole reason that I got Bebo's Christmas CD was for the song "Rebel Jesus"...but I forgot it was on there. So, "Rebel Jesus" started to play and I made it play for the next 6 songs...Another kick in the pants for what Christmas is about and not everybody forgets that.


The Rebel Jesus

The streets are filled with laughter and light
And the music of the season
And the merchants' windows are all bright
With the faces of the children
And the families hurrying to their homes
As the sky darkens and freezes
Will be gathering around the hearths and tables
Giving thanks for all God's graces
And the birth of the rebel Jesus

They call him by the "Prince of Peace"
And they call him by "The Saviour"
And they pray to him upon the sea
And in every bold endeavor
As they fill his churches with their pride and gold
And their faith in him increases
But they've turned the nature that I worshipped in
From a temple to a robber's den
In the words of the rebel Jesus

We guard our world with locks and guns
And we guard our fine possessions
And once a year when Christmas comes
We give to our relations
And perhaps we give a little to the poor
If the generosity should seize us
But if any one of us should interfere
In the business of why there are poor
They get the same as the rebel Jesus

But pardon me if I have seemed
To take the tone of judgement
For I've no wish to come between
This day and your enjoyment
In this life of hardship and of earthly toil
We have need for anything that frees us
So I bid you pleasure and I bid you cheer
From a heathen and a pagan
On the side of the rebel Jesus.

Friday, December 04, 2009

Never Again...

There has often been a rallying cry in times after a horrific event-- "Never again." We've said it after every genocide and after every war. After every despicable crime...A cry of "Never again" to remind us that we are called to a higher standard and remember that every human being is an individual of sacred worth and deserves to be treated as such. To deny a human being that right is to denounce our own humanity as well. It is not okay.

This rallying cry serves not only as a reminder of who we should be, but it is more than a reminder. It is a call to action. In order for something to happen "never again" it means that we must contribute to peace making.

We have such an opportunity at this moment. Surely there is genocide happening and we as human beings should be appalled. As Christians we should be enraged. These genocides both devalue human life and spit in the face of what Jesus Christ has called us to. They do not speak well of "love your neighbor as yourself."

Silence contributes to these acts because by our silence, it means that we implicitly agree. "Never again." is more than an mantra, it is a call to action.

There is currently a bill being proposed in Uganda known as the anti-homosexuality bill. To read on more information on this bill and situation, you can click here.

Regardless of what your feelings and opinions might be on homosexuality, this is not okay. It is not okay to devalue another human being's life so much to say that they should be murdered. If you conisder yourself pro-life, you must find this appalling and flies in the face of life. It surely does not scream "Love your neighbor as you love yourself."


I wanted to draw your attention to this important petition that I recently signed:
"Christian leaders must condemn Ugandan Anti-Homosexuality Bill"

Petition

I really think this is an important cause, and I'd like to encourage you to add your signature, too. It's free and takes less than a minute of your time.
Thanks!


Never again.

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Surprised Kitty

This really has no significant meaning or value...Just caught me off guard and made me giggle...Maybe it'll make you giggle too!


Wednesday, December 02, 2009

Are you dysfunctional?

I've been wrestling with dysfunctionality...Are we all dysfunctional? Are some just able to function better in their dysfunctionality? Is there such thing as a healthy individual?

I was talking with some friends recently about healthy churches. As I've been in conferences and classes, whenever a speaker talks about unhealthy churches groans and sighs of agreement and knowledge come bursting forth. It's made me wonder if there are any healthy churches anywhere?!? As I've talked with people who are parts of what seem to be healthy congregations, they've been quick to point out that things aren't always what they seem. So, it really has made me wonder if there is such a thing as a healthy church. In talking with a friend she said that there is no such thing as a healthy church because we are not healthy people.

Now on the one hand, that makes sense because we are all broken and fragile and we tend to act out of our brokenness and fragility. Plus there's that little thing called sin...So, the Church which is made out of human beings and human systems...it makes sense that it is a broken system. And brings about the question "Is there such a thing as a healthy church?"

I'm not sure that I'm willing to say no because I hold hope that someday I'll find one. I do think that there are some churches that are higher functioning than others and while there is not a perfect chruch, there are some who have embraced the mission of the church and are able to live it out.

At Thanksgiving dinner, I made the comment that families are all dysfunctional too. Now, I will admit that the way I made the comment was not coming from a positive place, but a place of anger and tension. I said something to the effect that all families are dysfunctional and anyone who says that they aren't is a liar. I'm not convinced that this is completely untrue, but I'm also not convinced that it is true. There are certainly some families that are able to work out their issues much better than others. Conflict is not avoided but embraced and dealt with in a healthy fashion. Truly-- all conflict is not bad.

So, I'm not sure where I'm at on this. Are we all dysfucntional and some are just higher functioning? Is there such a thing as a healthy church or a healthy person? Maybe my opinions will change when I meet one.

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

Hats, Coats, Gloves, Laundry Soap

On Sunday at Norway UMC, we were informed of a need in one of the Chicago Public Schools. This south-side school has at least 57 homeless children (1st-8th grade) who are in need of coats, hats, gloves and other items to keep them warm as they travel from the homeless shelter to the school.

One student wrote in his letter to Santa that all he wanted was deodorant and laundry soap because he hadn't been able to wash his clothes in months. He went on to share his story that his mother had been raped in the shelter that they were staying and is now pregnant.

After hearing this need and these stories, I was moved to tears by the tragedy of this situation. This is not okay. But I was moved to tears once again as the first question that came from the congregation was "What sizes do they need?" and a flurry of conversation/comments of bringing coats and gloves and other items to the church this week to get to this school and these students. I am so proud of their reaction and determination to provide for those who are in need.

So, if you have any new or gently used coats, hats, gloves, scarves or deodorant or laundry soap that you would be willing to get to Norway UMC, we would greatly appreciate them! I will arrange for pick-up as well if needed. Thank you so much!