New Beginnings
Here we are at the cusp of the New Year! In just a few hours we can throw away that 2006 calendar and put up our 2007 calendars! We have to remember to write 2007 on all of our checks…There’s so much to think about when the New Year starts!
One of the other things to think about is resolutions. How many people make resolutions? What are some of your resolutions? (Wait for responses) And how did you come to those resolutions? Let’s be honest—how many are the same ones from last year? Well, in order to come to whatever resolution that you’ve made or thought about making, there must have been some reflection on yourself first. If you’ve made a resolution to change something, you must have thought about what it is that you would like to change and why. For some people, there’s a lot of thought and process put into making resolutions.
In making our resolutions, turning the calendar pages or whatever it is that we do…We get to start over fresh…It’s a new beginning. We promise ourselves that things are going to be different this year—we’ll do something better or stop doing other things…
The letter to the people in Colossae reads like a list of resolutions…Instructions to the people there on how to act as Christians and as people…To be compassionate, kind, humble, meek, patient, forgiving, loving, thankful, let the peace of Christ dwell within, sing, learn, teach, share…There’re a lot of thing in this passage to think about!
Let’s look at each of the things that are listed in this small part of the letter…Compassion—caring for someone else. How can we be compassionate? Well, there are certainly many ways to be compassionate—both on a large scale and on a smaller scale. Showing compassion could be something like giving someone a ride to the doctor or babysitting for a friend so they can go out. Or it could be adopting a child in another country or working with your favorite charity.
Kindness—kindness is similar to compassion…Being kind to people, even when it’s hard. Maybe it’s a resolution to be nice to the person who just drives you crazy…That person that you have the hardest time dealing with—show them a little bit extra kindness. Or maybe it’s not even someone that you know, but the next time that you see someone who’s having a bad day, you offer just a little bit of extra support like a smile or a cup of coffee.
Humility—There are times when it’s hard to be humble. When you are being complimented and told that you’re just the best at something…Singer Michael Tait has said when he was on tour and people would come up to him after a concert, he could walk away with the biggest head and the most inflated ego because people would just tell him how amazing he was. He explained that he was fortunate to have a group of people around him to keep him in check. Humility doesn’t mean that you can’t take a compliment or that you shouldn’t accept a compliment from anyone…But it does mean that you don’t let your ego get too inflated. And that can be hard to do sometimes! That’s why it is good to keep a person or a group of people who keep you grounded. To keep humble.
Meek—also goes with humility. Kind of a mix between compassion and humility…Thinking about others first…It doesn’t mean being weak!
Patient—this is a tricky one…It’s hard to be patient sometimes! I have to admit that there are times that I am just not very patient. Some experts say that Gen X and the millennial generation aren’t very patient because we’re used to getting things faster. I mean think about it, we have instant coffee, fast food, microwaves, and all kinds of things that are ready in an instant! So, patience can be difficult sometimes…Oh and there are so many ways to work on patience—count to ten, take a breath, walk away…If it’s patience with another person, putting yourself in their shoes for a few minutes…Patience, it’s hard, but it can be done!
Forgiving—a friend of mine once made the observation of people who apologize when they didn’t do anything…Like when someone steps on their foot, they apologize! Its one thing to accept an apology, but it’s quite another to really forgive…To not keep a record of what’s been done wrong. Oh when we’ve been hurt by someone else it’s hard to for us to forgive—to let go of the pain that we have…To let go of the anger that we have…But, have you ever been forgiven? Has someone forgiven you for something that you thought was unforgivable? It’s pretty humbling when someone forgives you…How about forgiving yourself? That’s not very easy either…We can beat ourselves up over so many things! During our snowfall earlier this winter, as I was shoveling the driveway, I had to stop and call my brother to apologize…About 12 years ago, there was a snowstorm in Belvidere that caused us to get out of school early, so my brother and sister and I were supposed to be shoveling the driveway, but we thought it would be more fun to have a snowball fight! Well, that lasted until Mom came out of the house and was ready to work! We got in trouble and had to shovel…Well, my brother didn’t want to quit, so he kept throwing snowballs at me, and I had enough, so I figured that I would throw a shovel full of snow at him…Wouldn’t you know just at that moment, he was going to run and smash a snowball at me? So, as I turned around with the shovel, he came running at me and collided with the shovel…I hit my brother in the face with the shovel. He got stitches in his lip, and cut his face and it was just awful…We were talking about my apology again at Christmas, and I told him that I really still feel guilty about it…He made a face and said, “Why? It was just as much my fault—I should have stopped when I was told.” It became obvious to me in that moment that my brother had forgiven me a long time ago, but I still can’t forgive myself…If you haven’t been forgiven by a person, know this—you have been forgiven by God. No matter how big or how terrible you think that you have been or done—God forgives you. That’s grace!
Loving—it’s more than just telling someone that you love them—it’s showing. And it’s also more than those that are in your family or friends, although that’s important to let those close to you know that you love them! But Jesus also taught us to love our neighbors…To love all people. And sometimes that can be hard, especially when you don’t even like a person! It’s through love that we can be patient and compassionate and forgiving…As Paul says in Corinthians—have we not love everything else is useless—we’re like clanging symbols if we have not love. How do you show love? Well, that varies—it can be being there for someone who is having a difficult time, listening to someone as they tell of their pain, laughing at stupid jokes! There are so many ways to show love—just think of the many ways that you have been shown love.
Thankful—to live in an attitude of Thanksgiving. To be thankful for everything that you have. I have watched so many people who have gone on mission trips come back so much more thankful for everything that they have because they see people who have so much less than they do…Treasure what it is that you have been given…And it’s not just material things, either. There’s a story that’s been floating around the internet that goes like this. A rich man sent his son from their large mansion to a small farm in the country for his son to see just how “poor” people lived and much he should be thankful for. The boy went to this farm and spent time with the family, did chores, spent time with the animals and after about a month came back home. His father asked him if he learned how poor people lived and the boy looked at his father and said, “Yes, I did. On the farm, they have work to do and many animals, and fresh air everywhere and people who help each other…Thank you Dad, for showing me just how poor we are!”
Let the peace of Christ dwell within—what does that mean? It’s a combination of all these things—love, humility, compassion, forgiveness, thankfulness…All these things dwelling inside, but not just because—because of Christ. There are those who talk of their conversion experiences—how they have become a completely different person because they “found Jesus” …well, that may be true, but the truth is that Jesus was never lost—Jesus was there the whole time seeking us, but when that peace of Christ dwells within, it can mean some amazing things.
What else can you do when the peace of Christ dwells within, but tell everybody? And in so many different ways! Sing! Oh, to be so full of the peace of Christ that you have to just let it out by singing hymns and spiritual songs! How loud would our streets be if everyone who was filled with the peace of Christ just burst into loud song on the street? How many people would join in too?
Learn—learn all that you can! There’s no question that’s too silly or too foreign for God. Ask! There’s bound to be someone who can help you to find the answer and chances are that someone else has been wondering that same thing. In January, we’ll be starting the class on what United Methodists believe, but there are other studies to be had! What is it that has been burning inside you that you just want to know more about? Is it a book of the Bible, a particular theological question….Let’s learn together! No one ever has it all figured out and we can all learn and experience God in new and different ways, with a deeper understanding
And the other side of that—teaching! Is there something that you know a little bit about that you would love to share with people? A book that you may have read that you would like to teach a class to others about? A subject that is interesting to you that you’re willing to do research on and share with others? Something you’re passionate about that you intertwine with your faith…Well, let’s talk about teaching a class! How you can share what it is that you’ve learned with others.
And there’s another piece in there…It’s admonishing others…What does that mean? It means keeping one another accountable. Like when you have a work out partner—someone who makes sure that you work out…Keeping one another accountable. It’s not an accusatory way, like “I’m better than you”, but keeping one another accountable when we do fall short. Sometimes we don’t catch everything of our own…Telling someone when they’ve said something hurtful to another person, when they’ve acted not out of love, When they’ve not been compassionate…My friend Andrew calls it “challenging with care.” Because it does take a lot of care—you can’t accuse someone, but you can remind them with care…And it’s entirely possible that person will get angry with you—who wants to be told when they’ve done something that the shouldn’t be? I have an accountability group of people all around the country and we talk with one another regularly about how things are going in our personal, professional, and spiritual lives. Sometimes I get angry when one of them asks me about one of my goals that I know that I haven’t worked on very well! I’m angry because I know that I’ve fallen short and someone else pointed it out…In the same way when I asks about another’s goals and they get angry because they know that they’ve fallen short and someone else pointed it out. But we don’t accuse one another or think less of one another when it happens and it doesn’t make us any less a Christian or a faithful person, but it does remind us that there are others who are there to help us stick to what we’ve said…And that there is grace for when we fall short.
It’s a pretty impressive list of resolution that we’ve been given…Some more challenging
than others! And for different people, different ones will be challenging…But, they’re all achievable. Sometimes with a little extra help from one another and sometimes with a little extra help from God. But, it’s a new beginning—a fresh start and anything is possible. Nothing is impossible through God.
Sunday, December 31, 2006
Saturday, December 30, 2006
Top 10 CD's
Here it is, another top 10 list! These are my top 10 CDs of 2006-- again, not necessarily released in 2006, but that's when I discovered and loved them! Enjoy!
1.) Reflection of Something by Todd Agnew--Absolutely stunning in both music and lyric. Lyrically, there hasn't been many artists that I've heard in the Christian music industry who are very challenging, but this one is! The music is great too, and I have to agree with Nancy, Todd Agnew has a very sexy voice! Listen to: My Jesus, Something Beautiful, The Wonder of It All.
2.) Intensive Care by Robbie Williams--Robbie Williams is my favorite singer, I haven't disliked anything that he's done (but, I am nervous to get Rudebox because I don't think I'll like it!). There is a little difference musically than previous albums, but it's obvious that it's still Robbie. The music is wonderful-- popish with a little dance thrown in. But it's the lyrics that really catch-- subtle and you have to listen a few times to catch the humor and the poingant lyrics. But, it's amazing! Listen to: Ghosts, Make Me Pure, Sin, Sin, Sin.
3.) I'm Not Dead by P!nk--I usually like a couple songs on Pink's CDs, but not usually the whole thing...And there are a couple on this one that I could care less for, but it's the standouts that make it incredible! There was a lot of flack given for her song Stupid Girls, which I have to say is why I got the CD, but I haven't heard anything about Dear Mr. President, which is so amazing! Listen to: Dear Mr. President, I'm Not Dead, Conversations With My 13 Year Old Self.
4.) Good Monsters by Jars of Clay--In the grand scheme of things, I only recently discovered Jars of Clay, but I haven't disliked anything that I've heard. I can't say that they've returned to their old sound, but it's most definitely different than Redemption Songs. It took a couple listens through to really enjoy it, but it's good a really smooth sound. Lyrics aren't challenging, but still good. Listen to: Dead Man (Carry Me), All My Tears, Light Gives Heat.
5.) Mockingbird by Derek Webb-- I got this on a free download and I'll be honest and say that the only reason I got it was because it was free! And I'll also say that musically, I could take it or leave it, it's got a folksy sound which is nice, but not necessarily my favorite. It's the lyrics that are amazing. Incredibly challenging! The first time I heard it, I was blown away and couldn't believe what I was hearing. Listen to: In God We Trust, A New Law, Love is Not Against the Law.
6.) Another Journal Entry by Barlow Girl-- This CD got me through some difficult times this year. There are some that I really can't stand for theological reasons (Gray), but then there are others that fit exactly what I was feeling. Musically, it's not a completely original sound, but it's good. The harmonies are incredible. I saw them in concert about a year ago and I wasn't blown away, but they're good! Listen to: Porcelain Heart, I Need You to Love Me, Never Alone.
7.) Taking the Long Way Around by Dixie Chicks--I would never have thought that I would have placed a Dixie Chicks CD on my top 10 list. I have not enjoyed anything that they've put out because it's been too country (Anyone remember Earl Had to Die?). And then there's all the controversy around them as a group, which inspired the song that I fell in love with. Personally, I don't understand all the controversy because I think that they are more than entitled to their opinions! But the CD is great-- not too country at all! Listen to: Lullaby, Taking the Long Way, Easy Silence.
8.) Back to Basics by Christina Aguilera--I really like Christina's voice and her range is just incredible, I'm not gonna lie, I'm jealous! I wasn't sure how I'd feel about this CD, but I really like it. Musically, it's a nice blend of old school, R&B, Pop, and Dance-ish. Really great! I don't think that she's gotten near enough attention for it. Listen to: Makes Me Wanna Pray, Candyman, Hurt.
9.) FutreSex/LoveSound by Justin Timberlake--Gotta love the Timberlake! I'm so excited I'm going to see him in concert in March! Yes! I have to admit that I wasn't in love with SexyBack when it came out this summer, but it definitely grew on me-- mostly because you couldn't escape it! Good stuff-- I'm not sure that there's anything too originial or new, but that's okay. It's different for him, but not necessarily new. Good stuff though! Listen to: What Goes Around, FutureSex/LoveSound, My Love.
10.) Awake: The Best of Live by Live--How did I completely miss out on Live? Cortney wanted to used one of their songs for a worship service last spring and that's when I was tuned into them and I love them! This one has some of their greatest songs, which helps me reather than to go out and buy every album ever made! Very spiritual in its own way and nice rock sound. Quite enjoyable! Listen to: Overcome, Heaven, The Beauty of Gray.
Honorable mention:
Retaliation by Dane Cook--It's not music, but Dane Cook cracks me up! Seriously, go out and pick this up if you like to laugh (but, it does have some foul language FYI)
Daughtry by Daughtry--I would say that this could have entered the running, but I haven't had it long enough to say. Chris Daughtry is wonderful and to be honest, I'm glad that he didn't win American Idol because he probably wouldn't have put out this kind of an album!
Awake by Josh Groban--Again, another one that could have entered the running, but I just haven't had enough time with it. I'm looking forward to seeing him in concert in February!
1.) Reflection of Something by Todd Agnew--Absolutely stunning in both music and lyric. Lyrically, there hasn't been many artists that I've heard in the Christian music industry who are very challenging, but this one is! The music is great too, and I have to agree with Nancy, Todd Agnew has a very sexy voice! Listen to: My Jesus, Something Beautiful, The Wonder of It All.
2.) Intensive Care by Robbie Williams--Robbie Williams is my favorite singer, I haven't disliked anything that he's done (but, I am nervous to get Rudebox because I don't think I'll like it!). There is a little difference musically than previous albums, but it's obvious that it's still Robbie. The music is wonderful-- popish with a little dance thrown in. But it's the lyrics that really catch-- subtle and you have to listen a few times to catch the humor and the poingant lyrics. But, it's amazing! Listen to: Ghosts, Make Me Pure, Sin, Sin, Sin.
3.) I'm Not Dead by P!nk--I usually like a couple songs on Pink's CDs, but not usually the whole thing...And there are a couple on this one that I could care less for, but it's the standouts that make it incredible! There was a lot of flack given for her song Stupid Girls, which I have to say is why I got the CD, but I haven't heard anything about Dear Mr. President, which is so amazing! Listen to: Dear Mr. President, I'm Not Dead, Conversations With My 13 Year Old Self.
4.) Good Monsters by Jars of Clay--In the grand scheme of things, I only recently discovered Jars of Clay, but I haven't disliked anything that I've heard. I can't say that they've returned to their old sound, but it's most definitely different than Redemption Songs. It took a couple listens through to really enjoy it, but it's good a really smooth sound. Lyrics aren't challenging, but still good. Listen to: Dead Man (Carry Me), All My Tears, Light Gives Heat.
5.) Mockingbird by Derek Webb-- I got this on a free download and I'll be honest and say that the only reason I got it was because it was free! And I'll also say that musically, I could take it or leave it, it's got a folksy sound which is nice, but not necessarily my favorite. It's the lyrics that are amazing. Incredibly challenging! The first time I heard it, I was blown away and couldn't believe what I was hearing. Listen to: In God We Trust, A New Law, Love is Not Against the Law.
6.) Another Journal Entry by Barlow Girl-- This CD got me through some difficult times this year. There are some that I really can't stand for theological reasons (Gray), but then there are others that fit exactly what I was feeling. Musically, it's not a completely original sound, but it's good. The harmonies are incredible. I saw them in concert about a year ago and I wasn't blown away, but they're good! Listen to: Porcelain Heart, I Need You to Love Me, Never Alone.
7.) Taking the Long Way Around by Dixie Chicks--I would never have thought that I would have placed a Dixie Chicks CD on my top 10 list. I have not enjoyed anything that they've put out because it's been too country (Anyone remember Earl Had to Die?). And then there's all the controversy around them as a group, which inspired the song that I fell in love with. Personally, I don't understand all the controversy because I think that they are more than entitled to their opinions! But the CD is great-- not too country at all! Listen to: Lullaby, Taking the Long Way, Easy Silence.
8.) Back to Basics by Christina Aguilera--I really like Christina's voice and her range is just incredible, I'm not gonna lie, I'm jealous! I wasn't sure how I'd feel about this CD, but I really like it. Musically, it's a nice blend of old school, R&B, Pop, and Dance-ish. Really great! I don't think that she's gotten near enough attention for it. Listen to: Makes Me Wanna Pray, Candyman, Hurt.
9.) FutreSex/LoveSound by Justin Timberlake--Gotta love the Timberlake! I'm so excited I'm going to see him in concert in March! Yes! I have to admit that I wasn't in love with SexyBack when it came out this summer, but it definitely grew on me-- mostly because you couldn't escape it! Good stuff-- I'm not sure that there's anything too originial or new, but that's okay. It's different for him, but not necessarily new. Good stuff though! Listen to: What Goes Around, FutureSex/LoveSound, My Love.
10.) Awake: The Best of Live by Live--How did I completely miss out on Live? Cortney wanted to used one of their songs for a worship service last spring and that's when I was tuned into them and I love them! This one has some of their greatest songs, which helps me reather than to go out and buy every album ever made! Very spiritual in its own way and nice rock sound. Quite enjoyable! Listen to: Overcome, Heaven, The Beauty of Gray.
Honorable mention:
Retaliation by Dane Cook--It's not music, but Dane Cook cracks me up! Seriously, go out and pick this up if you like to laugh (but, it does have some foul language FYI)
Daughtry by Daughtry--I would say that this could have entered the running, but I haven't had it long enough to say. Chris Daughtry is wonderful and to be honest, I'm glad that he didn't win American Idol because he probably wouldn't have put out this kind of an album!
Awake by Josh Groban--Again, another one that could have entered the running, but I just haven't had enough time with it. I'm looking forward to seeing him in concert in February!
Friday, December 29, 2006
Top 10 Books...
It's a new top 10 list, folks! This one is the top ten books that I've read this year...This means that the books may not have been published in 2006, but that's when I read them!
1.) Left to Tell: Discovering God Amidst the Rwandan Holocaust by: Immaculee Ilibagiza--Hands down, the best book that I read this year...It was so humbling to read this story...It is an amazing story of grace and forgiveness that can only be Divine...It is an easy read in the way that everything flows, but very difficult in terms of subject matter...
2.) Velvet Elvis by Rob Bell--This has been the first "post modern" book that didn't want to make me vomit...I actually agreed with just about everything that was written in there...Very good, and I strongly reccommend it to anyone!
3.) Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting by in America by: Barbara Ehrenreich--Eye Opening by way of what actually happens in blue collar America-- the things that people don't really understand. I've seen more of it happen here than I thought was real. While this is a cultural insight book, her insights about religion and spirituality are pretty amazing as well...What is the Church doing to fight for justice?
4.) The Divine Comedy by: Dante-- I'm so glad that I did this class. It was so interesting to see that most people's view of the afterlife actually comes from what Dante has written...The beautiful and picturesque description of Hell and the wistfullness and waiting of Purgatory, and the beauty and grace of Heaven...Really interesting and provides some theological reflection
5.) The Notebook Girls--This journal of 4 high school aged girls in New York City shortly after 9/11 was also eye opening for many reasons...Many people criticisized for the girls' discussion of sex, drugs, and alcohol and while I can't say that every teenager does it, certainly it's not a taboo among teens to discuss the things that they did...
6.) Faith of the Christian Church: An Introduction to Theology by Tyron Inbody--Ty used this in our Systematic Theology class and I thought it was well done-- while he tried to be non-biased, I could hear his voice arguing certain points! And actually, he told me that he heard me arguing with him about ecclesiology when we read that chapter! One of my favorite quotes comes from this book (and he almost took it out!) "Any Christian who does not both love and hate the Church, simply does not understand the Church."
7.) Affirmations of a Dissenter by Joseph Sprague--I can't say that I agreed with or liked everything in this book, but it was really good to read and see what the Bishop of my conference thought. I also enjoyed reading it knowing that as United Methodists we don't all have to believe the same things to be in the church.
8.) I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence by: Amy Sedaris--This book is meant to be humourous and it is! But there are also some really great hospitality tips and recipes...It's meant for house parties, but some things can apply to the church too!
9.) Things They Never Taught You in Seminary: Practical Tips for Dealing with the Nitty-Gritty Issues of Pastoral Life by Deborah & James Bushfield--Jim & Debbie have an awesome way of teaching! They intertwine stories with their lessons that help so much! The best part is the pastoral bill of rights-- I go back to that every once in awhile to remind myself!
10.) Bait and Switch: The (Futile) Pursuit of the American Dream by Barbara Ehrenreich-- The second Barbara Ehrenreich book on the list! This one was eye opening in talking about the middle class looking for employment. Really interesting and some more insights on religion...These kinds of books open my eyes and make me sad for the world around...
1.) Left to Tell: Discovering God Amidst the Rwandan Holocaust by: Immaculee Ilibagiza--Hands down, the best book that I read this year...It was so humbling to read this story...It is an amazing story of grace and forgiveness that can only be Divine...It is an easy read in the way that everything flows, but very difficult in terms of subject matter...
2.) Velvet Elvis by Rob Bell--This has been the first "post modern" book that didn't want to make me vomit...I actually agreed with just about everything that was written in there...Very good, and I strongly reccommend it to anyone!
3.) Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting by in America by: Barbara Ehrenreich--Eye Opening by way of what actually happens in blue collar America-- the things that people don't really understand. I've seen more of it happen here than I thought was real. While this is a cultural insight book, her insights about religion and spirituality are pretty amazing as well...What is the Church doing to fight for justice?
4.) The Divine Comedy by: Dante-- I'm so glad that I did this class. It was so interesting to see that most people's view of the afterlife actually comes from what Dante has written...The beautiful and picturesque description of Hell and the wistfullness and waiting of Purgatory, and the beauty and grace of Heaven...Really interesting and provides some theological reflection
5.) The Notebook Girls--This journal of 4 high school aged girls in New York City shortly after 9/11 was also eye opening for many reasons...Many people criticisized for the girls' discussion of sex, drugs, and alcohol and while I can't say that every teenager does it, certainly it's not a taboo among teens to discuss the things that they did...
6.) Faith of the Christian Church: An Introduction to Theology by Tyron Inbody--Ty used this in our Systematic Theology class and I thought it was well done-- while he tried to be non-biased, I could hear his voice arguing certain points! And actually, he told me that he heard me arguing with him about ecclesiology when we read that chapter! One of my favorite quotes comes from this book (and he almost took it out!) "Any Christian who does not both love and hate the Church, simply does not understand the Church."
7.) Affirmations of a Dissenter by Joseph Sprague--I can't say that I agreed with or liked everything in this book, but it was really good to read and see what the Bishop of my conference thought. I also enjoyed reading it knowing that as United Methodists we don't all have to believe the same things to be in the church.
8.) I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence by: Amy Sedaris--This book is meant to be humourous and it is! But there are also some really great hospitality tips and recipes...It's meant for house parties, but some things can apply to the church too!
9.) Things They Never Taught You in Seminary: Practical Tips for Dealing with the Nitty-Gritty Issues of Pastoral Life by Deborah & James Bushfield--Jim & Debbie have an awesome way of teaching! They intertwine stories with their lessons that help so much! The best part is the pastoral bill of rights-- I go back to that every once in awhile to remind myself!
10.) Bait and Switch: The (Futile) Pursuit of the American Dream by Barbara Ehrenreich-- The second Barbara Ehrenreich book on the list! This one was eye opening in talking about the middle class looking for employment. Really interesting and some more insights on religion...These kinds of books open my eyes and make me sad for the world around...
Thursday, December 28, 2006
Top 10 Movies
Here comes the continuation of the top 10 lists...The top movies that I saw this year. These are the movies that I enjoyed the most and didn't necessarily come out in this past year, but that's just when I saw them! So, enjoy!!
1.) Water-- This is a foregin film, so if you don't watch with subtitles, this isn't for you! But, this was just an amazing movie. A beautiful story of sorrow and tragedy, but filled with so much love and grace. It had been awhile since I sobbed at a movie, and this one did that for me. Incredible!
2.) Brokeback Mountain--Okay, I know the controversy surrounding this movie and I've had people tell me that as a Christian, I shouldn't watch it...But, I have to say that it was such a complex movie...There were times that it felt like a love story and other times that it felt so violent...I think that it has brought about some interesting conversation...The visuals in the movie were also stunning-- beautiful cinematography!
3.)The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio--A wonderful, true story...It's was heartbreaking as the children endured violence and abusive language, but a true testimony to the time period when divorce was not an option. A story of how the matriarch stepped up to become not only the matriarch, but the bread winner.
4.) The Departed--This was so incredibly well acted! I didn't enjoy the bloodiness and all the death, but it was important in the story. It was just awesome-- some stellar performances and the story was powerful...How we get trapped into our vices and what we do to overcome them...
5.) Transamerica--An amazing story of a journey...How to find out who we really are as people. The vulnerablity of the characters as they explored their true identity physically, spiritually, and emotionally was beautiful...I'm not sure if all actually decided on their identity, but I think that they realized that they couldn't live apart from other people.
6.) Shopgirl--Steve Martin plays a different character than I've seen him do before...At first I thought he was a creepy old man, but he was tender and caring and nurturing...Still struggling with what he wanted from life, but through that struggle gave his lover the courage to be the person that she had always wanted to be...Although the movie ended happy, there was still a hint of "what if" left, and I suppose that's part of life...
7.) Empire Falls--Okay, it's a TV mini-series, but it counts! It was a great story or loss and redemption...A commentary on a town that's struggling to stay afloat and all the personalities to deal with in a small town and those with strong opinions. I saw it before I moved, but it resonates...
8.) Lost Boys of Sudan--A documentary about some boys who left Sudan in order to find a better life. They traveled to America in search of education and money and ways to better themselves and their country. In the end, they discovered the pitfalls of America and how some were so eager to help in the beginning, but then dropped the ball when it came to sustaining help...Also the determination of those who were able to break out and be successful!
9.) The Chumscrubber--An intriguing look into suburbian life...A sad look into families who don't care when their children go missing for a week, when pills are more important that interaction, where suicide is the norm...Wonderfully done!
10.) Country Boys--I think this originially aired on PBS...An eye-opening look into the lives of some rural boys who are struggling to make ends meet and succeed in life. A look at what family dynamics do to someone and how easy it is to be trapped into something...Yet, it's not a trap as much as it is the way that people live...
1.) Water-- This is a foregin film, so if you don't watch with subtitles, this isn't for you! But, this was just an amazing movie. A beautiful story of sorrow and tragedy, but filled with so much love and grace. It had been awhile since I sobbed at a movie, and this one did that for me. Incredible!
2.) Brokeback Mountain--Okay, I know the controversy surrounding this movie and I've had people tell me that as a Christian, I shouldn't watch it...But, I have to say that it was such a complex movie...There were times that it felt like a love story and other times that it felt so violent...I think that it has brought about some interesting conversation...The visuals in the movie were also stunning-- beautiful cinematography!
3.)The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio--A wonderful, true story...It's was heartbreaking as the children endured violence and abusive language, but a true testimony to the time period when divorce was not an option. A story of how the matriarch stepped up to become not only the matriarch, but the bread winner.
4.) The Departed--This was so incredibly well acted! I didn't enjoy the bloodiness and all the death, but it was important in the story. It was just awesome-- some stellar performances and the story was powerful...How we get trapped into our vices and what we do to overcome them...
5.) Transamerica--An amazing story of a journey...How to find out who we really are as people. The vulnerablity of the characters as they explored their true identity physically, spiritually, and emotionally was beautiful...I'm not sure if all actually decided on their identity, but I think that they realized that they couldn't live apart from other people.
6.) Shopgirl--Steve Martin plays a different character than I've seen him do before...At first I thought he was a creepy old man, but he was tender and caring and nurturing...Still struggling with what he wanted from life, but through that struggle gave his lover the courage to be the person that she had always wanted to be...Although the movie ended happy, there was still a hint of "what if" left, and I suppose that's part of life...
7.) Empire Falls--Okay, it's a TV mini-series, but it counts! It was a great story or loss and redemption...A commentary on a town that's struggling to stay afloat and all the personalities to deal with in a small town and those with strong opinions. I saw it before I moved, but it resonates...
8.) Lost Boys of Sudan--A documentary about some boys who left Sudan in order to find a better life. They traveled to America in search of education and money and ways to better themselves and their country. In the end, they discovered the pitfalls of America and how some were so eager to help in the beginning, but then dropped the ball when it came to sustaining help...Also the determination of those who were able to break out and be successful!
9.) The Chumscrubber--An intriguing look into suburbian life...A sad look into families who don't care when their children go missing for a week, when pills are more important that interaction, where suicide is the norm...Wonderfully done!
10.) Country Boys--I think this originially aired on PBS...An eye-opening look into the lives of some rural boys who are struggling to make ends meet and succeed in life. A look at what family dynamics do to someone and how easy it is to be trapped into something...Yet, it's not a trap as much as it is the way that people live...
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
Top 10 Moments
Well, leading up to the end of the year, I've decied to reflect on the year and what some of the most incredible moments of 2006 were...There will be other Top 10 lists to come, to be sure...And I started with a sentimental one first, so enjoy as I think back on what this year has meant and done for me...Here are Missy's top 10 moments of 2006...
1.) May 13, 2006--Graduating from United Theological Seminary! It was an event that was 3 years in the making. While throughout my experience there, there were certainly ups and downs and twists and turns, I would never, ever trade my experience there for anything in the world. I was able to travel the US and the world in ways that were amazing and incredible, I met friends that have changed my life, I understood my spirituality in different ways as I didn't feel like a crazy person...I came to terms with the fact that I am a liberal to moderate to conservative evangelical (Because all Christians should be evangelical! Don't buy into the hype...) Christian (and I fall heavier on two of those categories that one...You figure out which one I'm less of!)
2.) June 25, 2006-- My last service as Associate Pastor at Community United Methodist Church. My heart broke as I left and I saw the people I was leaving behind. While I was (and still am) excited about where I am serving, the people at CUMC were witnesses and instigators to my transformation. They were challenging, supportive, prayerful, wise, loving, critical, and supportive...I was loved, welcomed, and supported like I didn't think was possible and I returned those feelings to the fullest extent of my being. I miss the community there, and am prayerful that the people are listening to the call of God as they explore their vision and what it is that God continues to call them to do and be.
3.) July 2, 2006-- My very first service with Sheridan & Norway United Methodist Churches. It was an outdoor service and basically everything that could go wrong, probably did...I have been told by several people of the fear and anxiety over my coming to the churches as their pastor and after that service, a collective breath was exhaled as we all realized that we could work together. It was at this service that I presided over the Eucharist for the first time....Holy moments in a Holy time...
4.) July 1, 2006--My first official day on the job! I started out my time as the pastor of Sheridan & Norway United Methodist Churches with a funeral...I hadn't been "on duty" for 8 hours when I was given the opportunity to be present with a family who was burying their father, the patriarch of their family...My heart broke as I heard their stories and shared in their grief...I prayed this day that my heart will break every time this happens...
5.) January 23-27, 2006-- My trip to LA! I intentionally chose to go to LA in the winter and my trip was paid for on behalf of UTS. I learned things about myself and my education that I have cherised deeply. I got to meet some incredible people that I hadn't met before! I got to see Kevin Max in concert at the Viper Room (see my pictures for that!)...I got to worship on a beach and bless people as I was blessed as well...I was present at Hollywood UMC where I heard stories from homeless people and shared in their lives for just a few moments...I also got evangelized, which was pretty exciting!
6.) April-ish, 2006-- I'm not sure of the exact date and it's not so much because it was a "great" moment, but it did influence who I am now...It was the night that I received the e-mail from my DS that the appointment that was once offered to me had been pulled. I literally read that e-mail, wailed, fell to my knees in a sobbing heaping mess...I got very angry with God, I questioned my calling, my faith, my ordination, my education, and my life...I said some things to myself and to God that were (and are) very hurtful...After my temper tantrum was over, I listened to God and sought to fulfill my calling to the fullest of my ability. I let my own feelings and doubts obscure God's voice at times, I let others dictate my actions, but in the end, I let God provide...And God did provide and by my putting everything into God's hands, I was able to feel comfortable and confident with everything...
7.) June, 15-ish, 2006-- It was the Disney trip...I was invited somewhat last minute to go to Walt Disney World with the girl scouts from CUMC. The trip came at an awkward time because it was just before I was going to be moving, and probably should have been doing other things, but it was amazing to relax and see things through children's eyes again...To be a child, but yet be responsible...I had an amazing time and saw some amazing girls and leaders...
8.) May __, 2006--Seeing and hearing Paul Rusesabagina speak at OSU...His is an incredible story...Just being in the presence of this man who would never consider himself a hero, and in the larger picture of everything didn't (numerically) do all that much, has helped to inspire and educate others about the situation in Rwanda and the Sudan and to share their stories with the world who rejected them while things were happening...
9.) August 15, 2006--The first time in 3 years that I was home for my birthday! Nothing really overwhelmingly exciting happened-- I went shopping and was home...And while part of me was missing Italy (since I was there for my birthday the year before), there was also a peace that I was right where God wanted me to be...Guess it's a good thing that I decided to follow God's nudging, huh?
10.) There's really no date for this one, but every single time that I hear the voice of God continuing to call me and say, "You are my child and I have called you to be my servant. Go and do My work and I will be with you." For those moments that take my breath away-- that are too numberous to name...Those moments...
1.) May 13, 2006--Graduating from United Theological Seminary! It was an event that was 3 years in the making. While throughout my experience there, there were certainly ups and downs and twists and turns, I would never, ever trade my experience there for anything in the world. I was able to travel the US and the world in ways that were amazing and incredible, I met friends that have changed my life, I understood my spirituality in different ways as I didn't feel like a crazy person...I came to terms with the fact that I am a liberal to moderate to conservative evangelical (Because all Christians should be evangelical! Don't buy into the hype...) Christian (and I fall heavier on two of those categories that one...You figure out which one I'm less of!)
2.) June 25, 2006-- My last service as Associate Pastor at Community United Methodist Church. My heart broke as I left and I saw the people I was leaving behind. While I was (and still am) excited about where I am serving, the people at CUMC were witnesses and instigators to my transformation. They were challenging, supportive, prayerful, wise, loving, critical, and supportive...I was loved, welcomed, and supported like I didn't think was possible and I returned those feelings to the fullest extent of my being. I miss the community there, and am prayerful that the people are listening to the call of God as they explore their vision and what it is that God continues to call them to do and be.
3.) July 2, 2006-- My very first service with Sheridan & Norway United Methodist Churches. It was an outdoor service and basically everything that could go wrong, probably did...I have been told by several people of the fear and anxiety over my coming to the churches as their pastor and after that service, a collective breath was exhaled as we all realized that we could work together. It was at this service that I presided over the Eucharist for the first time....Holy moments in a Holy time...
4.) July 1, 2006--My first official day on the job! I started out my time as the pastor of Sheridan & Norway United Methodist Churches with a funeral...I hadn't been "on duty" for 8 hours when I was given the opportunity to be present with a family who was burying their father, the patriarch of their family...My heart broke as I heard their stories and shared in their grief...I prayed this day that my heart will break every time this happens...
5.) January 23-27, 2006-- My trip to LA! I intentionally chose to go to LA in the winter and my trip was paid for on behalf of UTS. I learned things about myself and my education that I have cherised deeply. I got to meet some incredible people that I hadn't met before! I got to see Kevin Max in concert at the Viper Room (see my pictures for that!)...I got to worship on a beach and bless people as I was blessed as well...I was present at Hollywood UMC where I heard stories from homeless people and shared in their lives for just a few moments...I also got evangelized, which was pretty exciting!
6.) April-ish, 2006-- I'm not sure of the exact date and it's not so much because it was a "great" moment, but it did influence who I am now...It was the night that I received the e-mail from my DS that the appointment that was once offered to me had been pulled. I literally read that e-mail, wailed, fell to my knees in a sobbing heaping mess...I got very angry with God, I questioned my calling, my faith, my ordination, my education, and my life...I said some things to myself and to God that were (and are) very hurtful...After my temper tantrum was over, I listened to God and sought to fulfill my calling to the fullest of my ability. I let my own feelings and doubts obscure God's voice at times, I let others dictate my actions, but in the end, I let God provide...And God did provide and by my putting everything into God's hands, I was able to feel comfortable and confident with everything...
7.) June, 15-ish, 2006-- It was the Disney trip...I was invited somewhat last minute to go to Walt Disney World with the girl scouts from CUMC. The trip came at an awkward time because it was just before I was going to be moving, and probably should have been doing other things, but it was amazing to relax and see things through children's eyes again...To be a child, but yet be responsible...I had an amazing time and saw some amazing girls and leaders...
8.) May __, 2006--Seeing and hearing Paul Rusesabagina speak at OSU...His is an incredible story...Just being in the presence of this man who would never consider himself a hero, and in the larger picture of everything didn't (numerically) do all that much, has helped to inspire and educate others about the situation in Rwanda and the Sudan and to share their stories with the world who rejected them while things were happening...
9.) August 15, 2006--The first time in 3 years that I was home for my birthday! Nothing really overwhelmingly exciting happened-- I went shopping and was home...And while part of me was missing Italy (since I was there for my birthday the year before), there was also a peace that I was right where God wanted me to be...Guess it's a good thing that I decided to follow God's nudging, huh?
10.) There's really no date for this one, but every single time that I hear the voice of God continuing to call me and say, "You are my child and I have called you to be my servant. Go and do My work and I will be with you." For those moments that take my breath away-- that are too numberous to name...Those moments...
Sunday, December 24, 2006
Breathless...
It's Christmas Eve Day...Christmas Eve falls on a Sunday this year, which means that I have a multitude of services. I'm actually hiding out at home right now before I go out and do a visit and then out for another service...A lot happening today! And I still need to finish cleaning my house and wrap my gifts! Gah!
Anyway, I was feeling rushed this morning and in a frantic mood...I realized this morning that my communication skills have been sucking lately...I've been in churches where there was a team or a group of people who took care of things, so I didn't need to think about them...Well, here I'm the one who's supposed to take care of things or at least make sure that people have the information...I forgot a couple things today and it happened to be for the same 4 people, so they're probably thinking, "Gosh what does she do with all her time?" Starting to work on New Year's resolutions/goals!
So, I was frantic and hectic and trying to get things done...I also realized that I didn't fill my liturgist in that we were doing lessons and carols, so there was a lot more reading than usual. He looked somewhat frightened, but said, "Well, someone's going to mess something up." I laughed and said, "We'll work with it when it does." And guess what...It was me who messed up! Go figure!
Even as the service started, I was trying to make sure that everything was in order and happening the way that it should...Even though I prayed for God to handle it, I guess I just figured in case God forgot about something, I could pick up the slack...But the service started and after the first reading, I started thinking that I hadn't explained what lessons and carols meant, I just jumped in and did it! Now, it's pretty obvious what lessons and carols are, but even still a little explanation would have been good! But, I didn't and as the second reading was happening, I was trying to decide if it was too late to explain or just roll with it...Well, we rolled with it and slowly the readings started to sink in with me. I had read them before and I've heard them countless times, but there was something about them today that I felt like I was getting smacked with a 2X4...Then, after I read the Magnificat (of which I preached on last week), someone sang Mary, Did You Know? which is one of my favorite Christmas songs and she invited someone to be Mary...As the song was being sung and Mary was sitting in front of me, I felt a subtle moving of the Spirit...But it was the next song where someone sang O Holy Night & Silent Night...There wasn't a subtle wave of the Spirit, it was massive...And you could feel it throughout the whole sanctuary...It was just incredible!
In that moment, I felt so dwarfed by the massiveness of everything...The massiveness of the Spirit, the enormity of the Story, and the immense joy of the Birth...And it was truly, truly nothing that I could have done or prepared for...I mean, I suppose that I provided the opportunity, but God did everything...I am still breathless...
My mind is filled with things that I need to do in order to be ready for tonight...I need to reprint some bulletins, print out my sermon, and get my communion liturgy together...Not to mention all of the things at home...And yet I am breathless at the wonder that is this event...This event that we are celebrating...The birth of a tiny baby who was born 2000 years ago...Who lived, taught, and died...Who rose...Who did all these things for me, even for me...Who teaches me something new all the time-- sometimes even by smacking me with a 2X4! This Savior, This God, This Spirit, who takes my breath away and fills me with peace and fullness...Who reminds me that no matter what I do or don't do...God will still show up...That God will be the center of attention...It's not about me...It's about the massive encounter of the Spirit...And it happened today...And I am blessed...
Anyway, I was feeling rushed this morning and in a frantic mood...I realized this morning that my communication skills have been sucking lately...I've been in churches where there was a team or a group of people who took care of things, so I didn't need to think about them...Well, here I'm the one who's supposed to take care of things or at least make sure that people have the information...I forgot a couple things today and it happened to be for the same 4 people, so they're probably thinking, "Gosh what does she do with all her time?" Starting to work on New Year's resolutions/goals!
So, I was frantic and hectic and trying to get things done...I also realized that I didn't fill my liturgist in that we were doing lessons and carols, so there was a lot more reading than usual. He looked somewhat frightened, but said, "Well, someone's going to mess something up." I laughed and said, "We'll work with it when it does." And guess what...It was me who messed up! Go figure!
Even as the service started, I was trying to make sure that everything was in order and happening the way that it should...Even though I prayed for God to handle it, I guess I just figured in case God forgot about something, I could pick up the slack...But the service started and after the first reading, I started thinking that I hadn't explained what lessons and carols meant, I just jumped in and did it! Now, it's pretty obvious what lessons and carols are, but even still a little explanation would have been good! But, I didn't and as the second reading was happening, I was trying to decide if it was too late to explain or just roll with it...Well, we rolled with it and slowly the readings started to sink in with me. I had read them before and I've heard them countless times, but there was something about them today that I felt like I was getting smacked with a 2X4...Then, after I read the Magnificat (of which I preached on last week), someone sang Mary, Did You Know? which is one of my favorite Christmas songs and she invited someone to be Mary...As the song was being sung and Mary was sitting in front of me, I felt a subtle moving of the Spirit...But it was the next song where someone sang O Holy Night & Silent Night...There wasn't a subtle wave of the Spirit, it was massive...And you could feel it throughout the whole sanctuary...It was just incredible!
In that moment, I felt so dwarfed by the massiveness of everything...The massiveness of the Spirit, the enormity of the Story, and the immense joy of the Birth...And it was truly, truly nothing that I could have done or prepared for...I mean, I suppose that I provided the opportunity, but God did everything...I am still breathless...
My mind is filled with things that I need to do in order to be ready for tonight...I need to reprint some bulletins, print out my sermon, and get my communion liturgy together...Not to mention all of the things at home...And yet I am breathless at the wonder that is this event...This event that we are celebrating...The birth of a tiny baby who was born 2000 years ago...Who lived, taught, and died...Who rose...Who did all these things for me, even for me...Who teaches me something new all the time-- sometimes even by smacking me with a 2X4! This Savior, This God, This Spirit, who takes my breath away and fills me with peace and fullness...Who reminds me that no matter what I do or don't do...God will still show up...That God will be the center of attention...It's not about me...It's about the massive encounter of the Spirit...And it happened today...And I am blessed...
Tuesday, December 19, 2006
Christmas Letter
Dear Friends,
Merry Christmas! It's been another year and so much has happened in this past year! The year has been filled with immense joys, troubles, celebrations and life! It has been incredible to be both participant and witness to all these things!
Beginning in January, I began work on completing my seminary education and all the classes, papers, and reading that goes with that! Along with completing educational requirements, I also had ordination requirements to work on and towards. Unfortunately, I have been delayed in that process, but I am still continuing on working toward and renewing my relationship with the Northern Illinois Conference, which was difficult to maintain while I lived in Ohio!
In May, I completed my seminary education and became a Master of Divinity…Or at least got my degree! That weekend, the Meyers family had a whole host of graduations with Matt graduating from Rock Valley on Thursday, May 11, I graduated from United Theological Seminary (in Dayton, OH) on Saturday, May 13, and Stacey graduated from Rockford College on Sunday, May 14. So, it was a lot of driving, traveling, and of course celebrating!
The celebrating continued as I began my preparation to move from Dayton, OH to my appointment within the Northern Illinois Conference. The month and a half between graduation and moving was filled with a flurry of activities starting with the Young Adult Seminarians National Gathering, Annual Conference, a trip to Walt Disney World with the girl scouts from Community United Methodist Church, and lest we not forget the break-in at the house I was living in Dayton! It was a pretty crazy time, but I managed to get pretty much all of my stuff moved with me.
The last Sunday in June was my last Sunday as the Associate Pastor at Community United Methodist Church. The relationships that I have made there have been life giving and the support and love that they sent me off with gave me such a sense of joy and strength as I began my first appointment in the Northern Illinois Conference. I am currently serving a two point charge in Sheridan and Norway Illinois at the respective United Methodist Churches. I love every minute and sometimes have to ask myself if I'm really doing what I'm doing! The people here are wonderful and the relationships that are beginning to form have been such a blessing.
I will admit that it has been a struggle to get used to the change in lifestyle. I was spoiled living in Dayton to be able to go within ten minutes and get someplace! Living in the small town atmosphere, I don't have that luxury. The good thing is that I don't have to hear sirens constantly outside my window, but I do hear the curfew whistle blowing! There are also some other differences like the time culture, farming culture, and sports culture. I am getting quite an education here, one that can't be taught in seminary! I've toured farms, talked crops and harvest, been to sports activities, and who can forget the Sandwich Fair!?! I'm working on meeting people around the area here and also reconnecting with those that I've lost touch with by living in Ohio. If you're one of those people, we need to compare our calendars and get together!
Although it was and continues to be difficult to say good bye to people that I spent time with for three years, I am looking forward to what new things to experience here. My house is always open if you'd like to come and visit! It wouldn't take much time to make the guest bed and you could always spend some time reading in my personal library! I love getting lost in my space here, so feel free to come and lose yourself too!
I wish you a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you and your families. I pray that you have had a wonderful year as well and that many blessings follow you!
Love,
Missy Ann
P.S. Feel free to keep in touch with me via my blog as well! http://www.pastormelissa.blogspot.com/
Merry Christmas! It's been another year and so much has happened in this past year! The year has been filled with immense joys, troubles, celebrations and life! It has been incredible to be both participant and witness to all these things!
Beginning in January, I began work on completing my seminary education and all the classes, papers, and reading that goes with that! Along with completing educational requirements, I also had ordination requirements to work on and towards. Unfortunately, I have been delayed in that process, but I am still continuing on working toward and renewing my relationship with the Northern Illinois Conference, which was difficult to maintain while I lived in Ohio!
In May, I completed my seminary education and became a Master of Divinity…Or at least got my degree! That weekend, the Meyers family had a whole host of graduations with Matt graduating from Rock Valley on Thursday, May 11, I graduated from United Theological Seminary (in Dayton, OH) on Saturday, May 13, and Stacey graduated from Rockford College on Sunday, May 14. So, it was a lot of driving, traveling, and of course celebrating!
The celebrating continued as I began my preparation to move from Dayton, OH to my appointment within the Northern Illinois Conference. The month and a half between graduation and moving was filled with a flurry of activities starting with the Young Adult Seminarians National Gathering, Annual Conference, a trip to Walt Disney World with the girl scouts from Community United Methodist Church, and lest we not forget the break-in at the house I was living in Dayton! It was a pretty crazy time, but I managed to get pretty much all of my stuff moved with me.
The last Sunday in June was my last Sunday as the Associate Pastor at Community United Methodist Church. The relationships that I have made there have been life giving and the support and love that they sent me off with gave me such a sense of joy and strength as I began my first appointment in the Northern Illinois Conference. I am currently serving a two point charge in Sheridan and Norway Illinois at the respective United Methodist Churches. I love every minute and sometimes have to ask myself if I'm really doing what I'm doing! The people here are wonderful and the relationships that are beginning to form have been such a blessing.
I will admit that it has been a struggle to get used to the change in lifestyle. I was spoiled living in Dayton to be able to go within ten minutes and get someplace! Living in the small town atmosphere, I don't have that luxury. The good thing is that I don't have to hear sirens constantly outside my window, but I do hear the curfew whistle blowing! There are also some other differences like the time culture, farming culture, and sports culture. I am getting quite an education here, one that can't be taught in seminary! I've toured farms, talked crops and harvest, been to sports activities, and who can forget the Sandwich Fair!?! I'm working on meeting people around the area here and also reconnecting with those that I've lost touch with by living in Ohio. If you're one of those people, we need to compare our calendars and get together!
Although it was and continues to be difficult to say good bye to people that I spent time with for three years, I am looking forward to what new things to experience here. My house is always open if you'd like to come and visit! It wouldn't take much time to make the guest bed and you could always spend some time reading in my personal library! I love getting lost in my space here, so feel free to come and lose yourself too!
I wish you a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you and your families. I pray that you have had a wonderful year as well and that many blessings follow you!
Love,
Missy Ann
P.S. Feel free to keep in touch with me via my blog as well! http://www.pastormelissa.blogspot.com/
Saturday, December 16, 2006
Dayton = Refreshing???????
If you had asked me 7 months ago if I would find it refreshing to go back to Dayton, I probably would have laughed at you hardcore...Yet, here I am to say that it was refreshing to be back in Dayton...I actually was talking with a congregation member this evening and she said to me, "What have you been up to because you look very refreshed!" There were so many things that happened this weekend that helped to refresh me physically, spiritually, and emotionally!
I first ran into Curtis, who directed me to the multipurpose room where he said lunch was happening...Little did I know that I was crashing both the student council meeting and the office Christmas party! But, I knew that it was a good thing when as soon as I walked into this large room, Ed lept out of his chair and wrapped me up into a great big bear hug! It was so awesome and I felt so loved in that moment! He told me that he missed me around and wanted to know how things were going...I briefly talked with him, but told him that I didn't mean to crash the party! I talked with Betty very quickly, and then went to her office later in the afternoon to get the dirt! I left so as not to disturb the party anymore....
I ran into Andrew within my first 20 minutes and talked for just a couple minutes when he invited me to lunch...It was so great to talk with him! To share my experiences and have him challenge me to think harder about things...To be able to express my mystic side and not feel like a weirdo either! While we were there, Dick joined us, and we laughed and shared our Italian experiences and made plans to take a group together again! (More on that later!!!!!) But in the midst of that, with both Dick & Andrew, I shared some things that I was reading and they responded with both affirmations and with interest. At some point in the conversation, Andrew brought up preaching and specifically lead to my preaching...That's when Dick gave me one of the most amazing compliments I've received! Dick, my preaching prof and I would call friend...Dick said that I was an excellent preacher and pointed out my imagery and was just complimentary! I hold those words precious and while I wanted to cry, I was so, so humbled...
I ran into a couple more people...Shared with some students-- Tim, Marie, Mick, Justin, Dana, and a few others...I wish that I would have had more time to get in more depth, but it was good to begin to reconnect! I was able to share with them what it's like being a first year pastor, half way into my year! So, so good! But also good to hear them begin to share their experiences as well and what's been happening in their lives-- also so, so good! As I mentioned, I got the dirt from Betty! But, it was nice to not be sucked into the drama...To know that it is happening, but not to feel like I need to be involved...Which doesn't happen when I return to Dubuque...But it happened there, at least for this time...
I continued on my Dayton jaunt and went to the Renfro's home for some conversation which was just delightful to catch up on their lives and to be present once again...Thank you for your hospitality and conversation!
Then, on to Thai9 with Barb & Cortney (thanks Cortney for making reservations!)...Sorry that more of ya'll couldn't join us, and I'm sorry for the short-ish notice! I'll do better on that and not come in the midst of Advent/Christmas stuff! But, it was so wonderful to eat GOOD Thai food! After the disaster that claimed to be Thai food at the restaurant in Ottawa...Definitely not Thai food...Which reminds me, I forgot my pad thai in Nancy's refrigerator!
After Thai9, I was worn out (I did get up at 3:30 in the morning!)...So, it was on to Nancy's house...Thanks Nancy for your hospitality and it was so nice to have conversation with you in person rather than on Yahoo or on the phone! Thanks for listening to my ramblings and for letting me steal music from your computer!
Friday...I was going to get up early and chat with Ed, but that didn't happen, so I just got ready for graduation! I chatted with Mona for a few minutes...Met up with Jim and met his wife and kids! Talked with Richie & Josh before pictures...Then who should walk in the door, but Sharon!! It was so good to catch up with her and be silly during graduation...She keeps me on my toes! I missed her sense of humor and fresh outlook on life and ministry...Sharon, you are awesome!
Two insipirational things that happed: Trudy Woods...Trudy was shot 3 times in her legs (after a life threatening illness last year) and walked down the aisle...It was a beautiful, beautiful moment!! Congratulations Trudy and many blessings on your life and ministry! The other thing, was Richie...Richie's wife, Leslie told me that he was pretty drugged up...Drugged up or not, I saw a very mature side of Richie...I think he has changed a lot and after graduation, he thanked me for all that I had done for him during our years together...I was humbled by his thanks and his words...I thanked him for our many conversations, for his prayers, and for showing me some of the unknown hotspots of Dayton! Turns out Richie & Leslie want to go to Italy too! So, I've said it before, but February 2009 looks to be a good time to go to Italy! Hardcore planning now, folks!
I had cake with Wes, Lisa, Andrew, Jim and a few random students...Had cake, shared life and laughed...And laughed...And laughed! I didn't want to leave, but I did...I didn't realize that when I left, I left UTS once again...I didn't look back...
I headed over to Juanita's house, where I lived for a year to see what I had left behind, and found nothing but salt and pepper shakers! Yay for those! It was strange seeing the house getting packed up and not the same things there...And I left without looking back...
What I did think as I was driving through town, I realized that I really missed this place...What I can't figure out is what I really miss...I don't miss it in the sense that I want to move back. I miss it in the sense that it's comfortable and I know how to get places and know that there are places to get to! I can say with absolute certainity that I miss the people...I think I also miss this as the place where I spent three years and underwent major life changes...I miss this place called Dayton! Yes, there are things that I don't miss...And I also can say that I am happy where I'm and and I'm getting more and more comfortable here as I learn my way around and spend more time with people and get to know more and more people in the town and in the area...I don't in any way want to move from here in the near future...I would just like to be closer to Dayton...Maybe someday...Maybe someday...
I got to spend a little time at the Greene-- Cheescake Factory & Books & Co.! And great conversation with Nancy...Good times! And I'm quite impressed with that little set-up over there too...I wish it would have been open before I moved, but it's probably best that it wasn't!
I left later than I was going to this morning, but still got here before I needed to be here...It was good, although I did get tired of my own company in the car! But, that usually happens...
Now, I sit with not really anything to do...I have nothing to do with finishing up service things, it's all done...I talked with Sara for a couple hours tonight, and it was so nice to catch up and check in on the condition of one another's souls!
So, in short (for those of ya'll who have made it this far!)...I had a wonderful weekend and I do feel so refreshed...Good to reconnect with friends and look at what's happening in my life...I'm in a good place right now...A really good place and while I miss those who are away from me...I am thankful for the new people who have entered into my life and have given me new insights and new things to think about and new experiences as well...
A good way to begin to re-evaluate and look to the new year ahead...
I first ran into Curtis, who directed me to the multipurpose room where he said lunch was happening...Little did I know that I was crashing both the student council meeting and the office Christmas party! But, I knew that it was a good thing when as soon as I walked into this large room, Ed lept out of his chair and wrapped me up into a great big bear hug! It was so awesome and I felt so loved in that moment! He told me that he missed me around and wanted to know how things were going...I briefly talked with him, but told him that I didn't mean to crash the party! I talked with Betty very quickly, and then went to her office later in the afternoon to get the dirt! I left so as not to disturb the party anymore....
I ran into Andrew within my first 20 minutes and talked for just a couple minutes when he invited me to lunch...It was so great to talk with him! To share my experiences and have him challenge me to think harder about things...To be able to express my mystic side and not feel like a weirdo either! While we were there, Dick joined us, and we laughed and shared our Italian experiences and made plans to take a group together again! (More on that later!!!!!) But in the midst of that, with both Dick & Andrew, I shared some things that I was reading and they responded with both affirmations and with interest. At some point in the conversation, Andrew brought up preaching and specifically lead to my preaching...That's when Dick gave me one of the most amazing compliments I've received! Dick, my preaching prof and I would call friend...Dick said that I was an excellent preacher and pointed out my imagery and was just complimentary! I hold those words precious and while I wanted to cry, I was so, so humbled...
I ran into a couple more people...Shared with some students-- Tim, Marie, Mick, Justin, Dana, and a few others...I wish that I would have had more time to get in more depth, but it was good to begin to reconnect! I was able to share with them what it's like being a first year pastor, half way into my year! So, so good! But also good to hear them begin to share their experiences as well and what's been happening in their lives-- also so, so good! As I mentioned, I got the dirt from Betty! But, it was nice to not be sucked into the drama...To know that it is happening, but not to feel like I need to be involved...Which doesn't happen when I return to Dubuque...But it happened there, at least for this time...
I continued on my Dayton jaunt and went to the Renfro's home for some conversation which was just delightful to catch up on their lives and to be present once again...Thank you for your hospitality and conversation!
Then, on to Thai9 with Barb & Cortney (thanks Cortney for making reservations!)...Sorry that more of ya'll couldn't join us, and I'm sorry for the short-ish notice! I'll do better on that and not come in the midst of Advent/Christmas stuff! But, it was so wonderful to eat GOOD Thai food! After the disaster that claimed to be Thai food at the restaurant in Ottawa...Definitely not Thai food...Which reminds me, I forgot my pad thai in Nancy's refrigerator!
After Thai9, I was worn out (I did get up at 3:30 in the morning!)...So, it was on to Nancy's house...Thanks Nancy for your hospitality and it was so nice to have conversation with you in person rather than on Yahoo or on the phone! Thanks for listening to my ramblings and for letting me steal music from your computer!
Friday...I was going to get up early and chat with Ed, but that didn't happen, so I just got ready for graduation! I chatted with Mona for a few minutes...Met up with Jim and met his wife and kids! Talked with Richie & Josh before pictures...Then who should walk in the door, but Sharon!! It was so good to catch up with her and be silly during graduation...She keeps me on my toes! I missed her sense of humor and fresh outlook on life and ministry...Sharon, you are awesome!
Two insipirational things that happed: Trudy Woods...Trudy was shot 3 times in her legs (after a life threatening illness last year) and walked down the aisle...It was a beautiful, beautiful moment!! Congratulations Trudy and many blessings on your life and ministry! The other thing, was Richie...Richie's wife, Leslie told me that he was pretty drugged up...Drugged up or not, I saw a very mature side of Richie...I think he has changed a lot and after graduation, he thanked me for all that I had done for him during our years together...I was humbled by his thanks and his words...I thanked him for our many conversations, for his prayers, and for showing me some of the unknown hotspots of Dayton! Turns out Richie & Leslie want to go to Italy too! So, I've said it before, but February 2009 looks to be a good time to go to Italy! Hardcore planning now, folks!
I had cake with Wes, Lisa, Andrew, Jim and a few random students...Had cake, shared life and laughed...And laughed...And laughed! I didn't want to leave, but I did...I didn't realize that when I left, I left UTS once again...I didn't look back...
I headed over to Juanita's house, where I lived for a year to see what I had left behind, and found nothing but salt and pepper shakers! Yay for those! It was strange seeing the house getting packed up and not the same things there...And I left without looking back...
What I did think as I was driving through town, I realized that I really missed this place...What I can't figure out is what I really miss...I don't miss it in the sense that I want to move back. I miss it in the sense that it's comfortable and I know how to get places and know that there are places to get to! I can say with absolute certainity that I miss the people...I think I also miss this as the place where I spent three years and underwent major life changes...I miss this place called Dayton! Yes, there are things that I don't miss...And I also can say that I am happy where I'm and and I'm getting more and more comfortable here as I learn my way around and spend more time with people and get to know more and more people in the town and in the area...I don't in any way want to move from here in the near future...I would just like to be closer to Dayton...Maybe someday...Maybe someday...
I got to spend a little time at the Greene-- Cheescake Factory & Books & Co.! And great conversation with Nancy...Good times! And I'm quite impressed with that little set-up over there too...I wish it would have been open before I moved, but it's probably best that it wasn't!
I left later than I was going to this morning, but still got here before I needed to be here...It was good, although I did get tired of my own company in the car! But, that usually happens...
Now, I sit with not really anything to do...I have nothing to do with finishing up service things, it's all done...I talked with Sara for a couple hours tonight, and it was so nice to catch up and check in on the condition of one another's souls!
So, in short (for those of ya'll who have made it this far!)...I had a wonderful weekend and I do feel so refreshed...Good to reconnect with friends and look at what's happening in my life...I'm in a good place right now...A really good place and while I miss those who are away from me...I am thankful for the new people who have entered into my life and have given me new insights and new things to think about and new experiences as well...
A good way to begin to re-evaluate and look to the new year ahead...
Sunday, December 10, 2006
Great Expectations...
Great Expectations
Oh, the waiting…Sometimes it’s so hard to wait…When you’re excited about something and you know that it’s coming…It’s hard to be patient and just wait for it to happen…There are times when we try and make the time go faster or try and will the clock to go faster, because we just can’t wait for something!
That’s what this season of Advent is…It’s that waiting because we know the story and we know what we’re leading up to…As we celebrate on Christmas, the birth of Jesus…And that time before, this time that we’re in now…Is that waiting and preparation…But, it may not be an easy wait!
What are you doing in preparation? Decorating, baking, shopping, wrapping, cooking, packing…All the things that we’re doing in preparation for the celebration of Christmas…Sometimes those things that we’re doing to make the time pass faster.
Now, we have this celebration of Christmas and we know that the baby is going to be born…But, what are we celebrating? Who is this baby to be born? Now, because we know the story, we know who this baby is and what this baby means to us and to the world…But, when the baby was first born, there was a need to tell people what he meant!
The person who was the messenger was John. John the Baptist…Now from out passage, we don’t have a good picture of who John the Baptist was…So, who is he?
John was born to Elizabeth and Zechariah when they were both in old age…Zechariah was told that his wife was pregnant, but he didn’t quite believe it…So Zechariah was no able to speak until his son was born…Until John was born…Now, Elizabeth & Zechariah aren’t just alone in this world…They have family was well, in fact they have some cousins who live in Galilee, Mary is one of them…So, this John…As he grows up, he turns into a radical…This is the man who is in the wilderness and eating locusts and honey…John the Baptist who wears camel’s hair and lives in the desert…John the Baptist who is a radical preacher, not just in his appearance, but his message…Part of that message that we have here this morning.
"Prepare the way of the Lord, make his paths straight. Every valley shall be filled, and every mountain and hill shall be made low, and the crooked shall be made straight, and the rough ways made smooth; and all flesh shall see the salvation of God.' " Now, this passage is a quotation from Isaiah 40. It’s something that the people of the time would have known and would have heard many times as they were waiting for Messiah to come. The Jewish people lived not only for a season in expectation, but they lived their lives in expectation…Can you imagine not just 4 weeks of waiting, but your entire life? And not having a guarantee that you would actually see what it was that you were waiting for…Yet, you live in expectation…
But, here comes John. John was out preaching to the people that the Messiah was coming and this Messiah was so great that John was not worthy to untie his sandals. John wanted to make sure that the people knew that John was not the Messiah, nor did he even think that he was the Messiah…But, the Messiah is coming!
Our other two passages for this morning, from Malachi and Luke; they hold that expectation…What it is that we’re all waiting for! Just in case in all that waiting, you’ve forgotten! Now, the waiting and preparation can become so exciting and as we keep ourselves busy, we may forget what it is that we’re really waiting for!
It’s tradition for my Dad and I to go shopping the day after Thanksgiving…The day that seemingly, at least in the retail world, is the kick off for Christmas. Now, we of course go out first thing in the morning and wait in line for the stores to open. This year as we were waiting outside one store at 4:30 in the morning, I overheard the conversation in front of me. First, they were talking about how crazy we all were for standing outside in line, then the started talking about what they were going to be running to get…Then, one woman made the comment, “Can you believe that the people who are in line here aren't even buying things for themselves? That we're all crazy waiting in line to buy things for other people?” And at first, I thought how sad that comment was…That this season of Christmas has turned into something much more than the baby, but then it got me to thinking more…
I’ve continued to think about that comment and it’s continued to nag at my heart and mind as I think about this season of Advent, of hopeful expectation.
What witnesses like John are there around today? In this advent season when we are in preparation for the birth of Jesus...Maybe it’s assumed that everybody already knows the story, so what’s the need to tell people what’s going on. I mean come on, people hear it so much that they’re probably sick of hearing about it, you know. So, what’s the use in telling the story again? I was out Christmas shopping and as I was wandering around and lost in my own little world of what I was going to buy for my family. And I ended up in the Christmas section with all of the ornaments and trees and lights…And I looked around at all of the colors and the twinkles and everything and as I looked around, I couldn’t see any evidence of a baby being born…I found snowmen and sleds and bows…but no babies…There were a few angels and stars…But there were no babies. And as I walked out of the department feeling a little sad, I turned back and giggled to myself a little bit…Because I wondered what it would look like if John the Baptist jumped in the middle of all of those trees and started bearing witness to Jesus…And started whoopin and hollerin and shouting and being the witness to the coming Messiah! You just think about that the next time you’re in the Christmas department…
And I still kept thinking about that as I was leaving the store and picturing John the Baptist witnessing to the one who will make the crooked roads straight in the middle of all the madness…And I thought, “That would be great if someone did that today…” and then I started to think more and realize…Wait a minute, I’m called to be a witness to the Messiah! We’re called to be witnesses to the Messiah!
Now, I’m gonna tell you that I didn’t go back in the store and start whoopin and hollerin in the middle of the Christmas department….But, it changed my whole attitude. And everywhere I went, I kept thinking, “How can I be a witness to the Messiah here?” And sometimes it was singing carols like “What child is this?” or “Away in a Manger” as I was wandering the aisles. And sometimes it was sharing a smile with the person who joined in with me. Or it was carrying on a conversation with people about being in church on Christmas Eve. But, it was bearing witness to the Messiah. To the Messiah that is Jesus Christ, the baby that we’re waiting so patiently…Or impatiently for!
So, what can you do to bear witness to this Messiah? Is there someone that maybe you’ve been thinking that you should talk with about Christmas? Or is there some charity that you really would like to get involved with? Or do you want to sing carols at the top of your lungs in the middle of a parking lot? How can you bear witness to the light? Because we are preparing for the birth of Jesus, our light…Someone’s gotta witness to it. Now, it’s important to remember that witnessing wasn’t easy for John…Eventually John literally lost his head for it…But it was something that he felt so strongly and passionate about and was willing to die over. That he was willing to die what we’re waiting in hopeful expectation for…For this baby…For this Messiah to be born…For these great expectations…
Oh, the waiting…Sometimes it’s so hard to wait…When you’re excited about something and you know that it’s coming…It’s hard to be patient and just wait for it to happen…There are times when we try and make the time go faster or try and will the clock to go faster, because we just can’t wait for something!
That’s what this season of Advent is…It’s that waiting because we know the story and we know what we’re leading up to…As we celebrate on Christmas, the birth of Jesus…And that time before, this time that we’re in now…Is that waiting and preparation…But, it may not be an easy wait!
What are you doing in preparation? Decorating, baking, shopping, wrapping, cooking, packing…All the things that we’re doing in preparation for the celebration of Christmas…Sometimes those things that we’re doing to make the time pass faster.
Now, we have this celebration of Christmas and we know that the baby is going to be born…But, what are we celebrating? Who is this baby to be born? Now, because we know the story, we know who this baby is and what this baby means to us and to the world…But, when the baby was first born, there was a need to tell people what he meant!
The person who was the messenger was John. John the Baptist…Now from out passage, we don’t have a good picture of who John the Baptist was…So, who is he?
John was born to Elizabeth and Zechariah when they were both in old age…Zechariah was told that his wife was pregnant, but he didn’t quite believe it…So Zechariah was no able to speak until his son was born…Until John was born…Now, Elizabeth & Zechariah aren’t just alone in this world…They have family was well, in fact they have some cousins who live in Galilee, Mary is one of them…So, this John…As he grows up, he turns into a radical…This is the man who is in the wilderness and eating locusts and honey…John the Baptist who wears camel’s hair and lives in the desert…John the Baptist who is a radical preacher, not just in his appearance, but his message…Part of that message that we have here this morning.
"Prepare the way of the Lord, make his paths straight. Every valley shall be filled, and every mountain and hill shall be made low, and the crooked shall be made straight, and the rough ways made smooth; and all flesh shall see the salvation of God.' " Now, this passage is a quotation from Isaiah 40. It’s something that the people of the time would have known and would have heard many times as they were waiting for Messiah to come. The Jewish people lived not only for a season in expectation, but they lived their lives in expectation…Can you imagine not just 4 weeks of waiting, but your entire life? And not having a guarantee that you would actually see what it was that you were waiting for…Yet, you live in expectation…
But, here comes John. John was out preaching to the people that the Messiah was coming and this Messiah was so great that John was not worthy to untie his sandals. John wanted to make sure that the people knew that John was not the Messiah, nor did he even think that he was the Messiah…But, the Messiah is coming!
Our other two passages for this morning, from Malachi and Luke; they hold that expectation…What it is that we’re all waiting for! Just in case in all that waiting, you’ve forgotten! Now, the waiting and preparation can become so exciting and as we keep ourselves busy, we may forget what it is that we’re really waiting for!
It’s tradition for my Dad and I to go shopping the day after Thanksgiving…The day that seemingly, at least in the retail world, is the kick off for Christmas. Now, we of course go out first thing in the morning and wait in line for the stores to open. This year as we were waiting outside one store at 4:30 in the morning, I overheard the conversation in front of me. First, they were talking about how crazy we all were for standing outside in line, then the started talking about what they were going to be running to get…Then, one woman made the comment, “Can you believe that the people who are in line here aren't even buying things for themselves? That we're all crazy waiting in line to buy things for other people?” And at first, I thought how sad that comment was…That this season of Christmas has turned into something much more than the baby, but then it got me to thinking more…
I’ve continued to think about that comment and it’s continued to nag at my heart and mind as I think about this season of Advent, of hopeful expectation.
What witnesses like John are there around today? In this advent season when we are in preparation for the birth of Jesus...Maybe it’s assumed that everybody already knows the story, so what’s the need to tell people what’s going on. I mean come on, people hear it so much that they’re probably sick of hearing about it, you know. So, what’s the use in telling the story again? I was out Christmas shopping and as I was wandering around and lost in my own little world of what I was going to buy for my family. And I ended up in the Christmas section with all of the ornaments and trees and lights…And I looked around at all of the colors and the twinkles and everything and as I looked around, I couldn’t see any evidence of a baby being born…I found snowmen and sleds and bows…but no babies…There were a few angels and stars…But there were no babies. And as I walked out of the department feeling a little sad, I turned back and giggled to myself a little bit…Because I wondered what it would look like if John the Baptist jumped in the middle of all of those trees and started bearing witness to Jesus…And started whoopin and hollerin and shouting and being the witness to the coming Messiah! You just think about that the next time you’re in the Christmas department…
And I still kept thinking about that as I was leaving the store and picturing John the Baptist witnessing to the one who will make the crooked roads straight in the middle of all the madness…And I thought, “That would be great if someone did that today…” and then I started to think more and realize…Wait a minute, I’m called to be a witness to the Messiah! We’re called to be witnesses to the Messiah!
Now, I’m gonna tell you that I didn’t go back in the store and start whoopin and hollerin in the middle of the Christmas department….But, it changed my whole attitude. And everywhere I went, I kept thinking, “How can I be a witness to the Messiah here?” And sometimes it was singing carols like “What child is this?” or “Away in a Manger” as I was wandering the aisles. And sometimes it was sharing a smile with the person who joined in with me. Or it was carrying on a conversation with people about being in church on Christmas Eve. But, it was bearing witness to the Messiah. To the Messiah that is Jesus Christ, the baby that we’re waiting so patiently…Or impatiently for!
So, what can you do to bear witness to this Messiah? Is there someone that maybe you’ve been thinking that you should talk with about Christmas? Or is there some charity that you really would like to get involved with? Or do you want to sing carols at the top of your lungs in the middle of a parking lot? How can you bear witness to the light? Because we are preparing for the birth of Jesus, our light…Someone’s gotta witness to it. Now, it’s important to remember that witnessing wasn’t easy for John…Eventually John literally lost his head for it…But it was something that he felt so strongly and passionate about and was willing to die over. That he was willing to die what we’re waiting in hopeful expectation for…For this baby…For this Messiah to be born…For these great expectations…
Friday, December 08, 2006
Blisters...
I was in Chicago yesterday for the first time in...I don't even know how long! I went shopping along Michigan Avenue-- I didn't purchase anything too exciting-- a couple gifts, but not for my family...I did get some ideas though! I was supposed to head into Chicago again tonight, but it's freaking cold, so I'm not sure-- we may change plans!
I just finished reading the best book that I have read in a long time--Velvet Elvis by Rob Bell. It was simply amazing! It falls under the "postmodern" writings, but I didn't find it as repulsing as some of the postmodern writings that I've read...Or at least those that claim to be postmodern writings. This was an incredible book! Page after page, I realized that I had said most of the things that were written in the pages, although not quite as eloquently...And that I believe pretty much everything that was in the book...Simply stuning! I would highly reccommend it to anyone and everyone. Chapter after chapter was just wonderful-- There wasn't any one thing that particularly stood out, it was everything-- after having read two or three books over the last couple of months that I just argued with several things in the book or wanted to throw it across the room, this was a welcome change! After the first few pages, I breathed a sigh of relief!
I've got several that are on the burner now, so I'm trying to figure out what I want to read next...I think I want something that's not quite very difficult to read rhetorically, but has some difficult and complex information.
Of course the challenge is then what to do with the information. It's one thing to read and collect information, but there comes a point when we must act on the information that we have. Some would call it a conviction of what it is that we are all called to do and be, some would call it living out our understanding...I think that's both-- it is through our convictions that we understand who and what we are called to be as children of God.
This takes both acts of justice and acts of mercy...A conversation that arose when I took a Mission & Evangelism course at uTs back in the day...Mercy comes in the immediacy of things-- working at a soup kitchen, providing heat, gas, food, money, etc...Justice comes in long term struggle in order to change the system in which people are oppressed. Justice is often carried out in more boisterous ways like rallies, protests, letter writing...If we were to focus only on one, we would miss other opportunities.
That's enough deep thinking for today...I need to do some laundry...
I just finished reading the best book that I have read in a long time--Velvet Elvis by Rob Bell. It was simply amazing! It falls under the "postmodern" writings, but I didn't find it as repulsing as some of the postmodern writings that I've read...Or at least those that claim to be postmodern writings. This was an incredible book! Page after page, I realized that I had said most of the things that were written in the pages, although not quite as eloquently...And that I believe pretty much everything that was in the book...Simply stuning! I would highly reccommend it to anyone and everyone. Chapter after chapter was just wonderful-- There wasn't any one thing that particularly stood out, it was everything-- after having read two or three books over the last couple of months that I just argued with several things in the book or wanted to throw it across the room, this was a welcome change! After the first few pages, I breathed a sigh of relief!
I've got several that are on the burner now, so I'm trying to figure out what I want to read next...I think I want something that's not quite very difficult to read rhetorically, but has some difficult and complex information.
Of course the challenge is then what to do with the information. It's one thing to read and collect information, but there comes a point when we must act on the information that we have. Some would call it a conviction of what it is that we are all called to do and be, some would call it living out our understanding...I think that's both-- it is through our convictions that we understand who and what we are called to be as children of God.
This takes both acts of justice and acts of mercy...A conversation that arose when I took a Mission & Evangelism course at uTs back in the day...Mercy comes in the immediacy of things-- working at a soup kitchen, providing heat, gas, food, money, etc...Justice comes in long term struggle in order to change the system in which people are oppressed. Justice is often carried out in more boisterous ways like rallies, protests, letter writing...If we were to focus only on one, we would miss other opportunities.
That's enough deep thinking for today...I need to do some laundry...
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
Family...
I've been doing some thinking lately about the rhetoric of family. The word family is used quite a bit in churches as well as other places in addition to our own personal lives.
What exactly composes a family? Because when we use the language in church, we aren't presupposing that everyone is blood related (although that may be the case). But, we are presupposing some kind of a connection...A deeper connection...
What composes a family? Does it rely on that deeper connection? I have said for some time that I consider my friends a part of my family. Part of it is because of that deeper connection, but it also means (to me) that I would do anything for them. I suppose that I would clarify "friend" as well, but people that I really and truly consider my friends rather than people I know...
What composes a family? I did a funeral recently where the family was counting up kids, grandkids and great-great grandkids. In that counting, the emphasized that they do not count "step" as anything other than family. Doesn't that in and of itself mean that family is more than just blood? And if that is the case, then does anyone stop being family? When the connection fades, does that mean that person is no longer a member of the family?
I have many people that I would consider my family, beyond friends, but also looking at my church families as well. I'm working on my definition of family...Of course blood relatives are family, but what if there is no connection? It may be an immediate relative or extended family, but we are related by blood....Yet, I feel absolutely no connection with them. Does that make them any less my family?
Perhaps just like the word "friend" is multifaceted, the word "family" is multifaceted as well. Those that I would do anything for in a heartbeat and I know would do anything for me as well, those that I have a deeper connection with-- those are one "kind" of family....Those that are blood related, which by relation I love, but may not "like" or those who are still blood related but may have hurt me-- are another "kind" of family.
I don't want to separate people that way on the one hand because family is very important to me! Someone recently asked me to rank "things" in my life as to what was the most important to me and I had to say 1.) Family & friends 2.) Faith/Spirituality 3.) Health/Wellness...So, family would definitely be on the top of my list...But, then I started to think about who is my family?
Maybe it's back to Jesus' conversation on who is my neighbor...All the world is my neighbor...Is neighbor different than family? I'm not sure yet...
What exactly composes a family? Because when we use the language in church, we aren't presupposing that everyone is blood related (although that may be the case). But, we are presupposing some kind of a connection...A deeper connection...
What composes a family? Does it rely on that deeper connection? I have said for some time that I consider my friends a part of my family. Part of it is because of that deeper connection, but it also means (to me) that I would do anything for them. I suppose that I would clarify "friend" as well, but people that I really and truly consider my friends rather than people I know...
What composes a family? I did a funeral recently where the family was counting up kids, grandkids and great-great grandkids. In that counting, the emphasized that they do not count "step" as anything other than family. Doesn't that in and of itself mean that family is more than just blood? And if that is the case, then does anyone stop being family? When the connection fades, does that mean that person is no longer a member of the family?
I have many people that I would consider my family, beyond friends, but also looking at my church families as well. I'm working on my definition of family...Of course blood relatives are family, but what if there is no connection? It may be an immediate relative or extended family, but we are related by blood....Yet, I feel absolutely no connection with them. Does that make them any less my family?
Perhaps just like the word "friend" is multifaceted, the word "family" is multifaceted as well. Those that I would do anything for in a heartbeat and I know would do anything for me as well, those that I have a deeper connection with-- those are one "kind" of family....Those that are blood related, which by relation I love, but may not "like" or those who are still blood related but may have hurt me-- are another "kind" of family.
I don't want to separate people that way on the one hand because family is very important to me! Someone recently asked me to rank "things" in my life as to what was the most important to me and I had to say 1.) Family & friends 2.) Faith/Spirituality 3.) Health/Wellness...So, family would definitely be on the top of my list...But, then I started to think about who is my family?
Maybe it's back to Jesus' conversation on who is my neighbor...All the world is my neighbor...Is neighbor different than family? I'm not sure yet...
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